"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oneitis led to death?!

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,4-2007200602,00.html

“He struggled to cope with her seeing somebody else. The fact it was Colin Farrell must have made matters worse. As time passed things got worse for John.”

Poor bastard killing himself over a girl. Too bad he didn't find sosuave and would have seen that there are ways to beat and avoid oneitis and understand that there is no such thing as "the one".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which builds a premise to "why the hell would you settle?"


Yea, at times it's scary to look back. Last week I had Wyldfire shed some light on my past, it hit really hard when you realize that all the AFC problems you were having were related to past. Now that I think about it, it all started to happen when mom and dad began fighting. Thus, AFC, at least for me, was a mental illness brought on by surroundings. Some people go through life like that and some off them selfs.

I doubt that he'd pay much attention to SS if he found it. It's most affective when you decide you need a change, even then, you mis trust information until it proves it self to be right.
 

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I find this quote to be funny:

A source close to Muireann confirmed she had been left shattered. The friend said: “She is having trouble coping with this.”

I am sorry to say but women don't give a rat's ass about the guy they dump other wise they wouldn't dump him. I am sure she is having trouble thinking about it when she lays naked in Colin's arms after steamy sex. In reality she is the envy of all her girlfriends. In chick world she gets 10,000 points for dating Colin and another 10,000 points for having a guy commit a suicide because he can't live without her. Women live for that kind of drama.
 

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I'd be pretty fvcked off and despondent if my girl left me for Sonny Crockett like that. I couldn't hate him for it though.
 

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The question is why did he kill himself not Colin Farrel? :rolleyes:

Same reason his girl left him... No ambition.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atleast he didn't take a gun and kill others.
 

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DJDamage said:
I find this quote to be funny:

A source close to Muireann confirmed she had been left shattered. The friend said: “She is having trouble coping with this.”

I am sorry to say but women don't give a rat's ass about the guy they dump other wise they wouldn't dump him. I am sure she is having trouble thinking about it when she lays naked in Colin's arms after steamy sex. In reality she is the envy of all her girlfriends. In chick world she gets 10,000 points for dating Colin and another 10,000 points for having a guy commit a suicide because he can't live without her. Women live for that kind of drama.
Just because she dumped him doesn't mean she has no feelings. She is still human, she is not his girlfriend anymore, but does not mean she have turn completely cold-hearted to him. Do you really think she is thinking "YES! Now all the other girls will envy me! I love this drama!" Only in the worse of enemies would a person truly wish for death on the other person, especially when you are connected to the reason to anyone's death.
 

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TheHumanist said:
Just because she dumped him doesn't mean she has no feelings.

You're right she probably feels bad for the poor sap, so she jumps on Colin's d1ck to make herself feel better. :D
 
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