Oneitis for "Quality" Women

[Poon King]

Someone requested a thread on this topic.

What makes a "quality" woman is relative. How special can any one woman really be? In reality.. not that special. But the main reason men get oneitis is the "scarcity" principle. Human's are wired to see more value in things that are more difficult to attain or hang on to. Why do you think I CONSTANTLY tell men to spin plates? When you spin plates you create scarcity.. making you more valuable.

The scarcity principle is what salespeople use routinely to increase the purchasing interest of potential consumers (“We have one more left in the warehouse…someone else expressed interest in this house earlier today, so we'd better submit the highest offer you can afford as soon as possible…Call now...this remarkable ‘product' is available only while supplies last…”)

This is also why women find men LESS attractive when they act line pandering faggots. Here is some REAL female insight pulled from a site where women are b!tching about men who "ghost" them:

OP Woman:
My question is what is your opinion on why men do this disappearing act? How often do they reappear and what do you do when they do decide you’re worth their time again? I know I’m a wonderful person. People tell me constantly how great and awesome I am.

Woman Responding:
My question is why is it that we women tend to be attracted to those type of men? The men that are putting themselves out there and showing that they are clearly wanting us- I feel less attracted to 90% of the time…. Damn it!!!!

Here is the link for more reading: http://www.anewmode.com/topic/why-men-pull-the-disappearreappear-act/

I mentioned in another thread how I flake on women often. If you have oneitis its probably because you cannot get a woman under your thumb no matter how hard you try. Rather than walking away and exploring other options.. you try harder. When you try harder you become less valuable. This makes the woman lose interest. As she loses interest.. you feel more uncertainty and insecurity about your ability to keep her. This gives you oneitis AND turns you into a faggot.. which makes her lose more interest.

Is she really that special? NOPE. Its just scarcity f*cking with your head. You want what you can't have.

 

[resilient]

Woman Responding:
My question is why is it that we women tend to be attracted to those type of men? The men that are putting themselves out there and showing that they are clearly wanting us- I feel less attracted to 90% of the time…. Damn it!!!!

Lol! Classic quote by a female... and that's why women are like cats.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Wow - I read almost that full page and the responses. It almost looks like a gender flipped sosuave discussion. Didn't learn a damn thing that I already didn't know, though. These women aren't honest with each other on that thread because they are not honest with themselves. It was "poor me" over and over again. They see themselves as victims, always.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Trump has a short di k

I was totally going to vote for him until I read your post. Thanks antitrump Troll. You may have just saved our country.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I'm actually voting for Stein because I'm a communist

Welcome aboard then comrade! I'm writing in Kim Jung Un, because I'm a masochist.

 

[Poon King]

Lol! Classic quote by a female... and that's why women are like cats.

Every blue pill faggot should read that link. Its pretty brilliant and it basically explains marriage in 2016.

Of course, most of them will probably go white knight and dismiss the article as misogyny lol.

Society and the media has worked over the past 50-70 years to manipulate men into embracing a life in chains as the norm. This is not limited to women either. Society constantly pressures men to commit to causes outside their own (women, employers, churches, political parties, the government, etc.) There is no such pressure on women. Society encourages women to commit only to themselves and their own cause. Why? Because that is what women want to hear and there is MONEY in pleasing women. When the media appeals to women.. they get all the pandering beta slaves with them. That's double cash: The cash women spend on shiny consumer goods and other worthless crap AND the cash beta slaves spend to please women.

The highest alphas in the world pull these strings to keep their position in place. I've said this before:

• Alphas live for their goals (usually power and freedom)
• Betas live for women.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Welcome aboard then comrade! I'm writing in Kim Jung Un, because I'm a masochist.

My above posts seem like non sequiturs but for the record, I was replying to a troll out of boredom. The troll is gone so that's why my posts seem disconnected.
Carry on

 

[marmel75]

A link inside that link turned out to be a great read as well...

http://www.returnofkings.com/13394/when-hypergamy-is-criminal

 

[Serenity]

@Poon King This is good, keep going with your points on this board. I agree to your general philosophy, despite this some members on this forum thinks I'm a blue pill beta. I don't know how, but I don't care.

It's not rational to assume that something is worth more just because it's harder to get. That's completely backwards, it should be the other way around. How valuable something is determines how much one is willing to work for it.

Assuming a woman is of value because she's hard to get is plain stupid. It is true though that most if not all high value things are hard to get, but not everything that's hard to get is of value. I filter based on what she shows that I value, I don't gauge how hard she is to get and then assume she's worth something without defining for myself what she's actually worth to me and why.

Sometimes a particular woman can be of some value, but she's playing too hard to get. Their challenge doesn't match their worth, mostly because they believe they're worth more than they actually are. Sometimes a particular woman is a challenge to a level where it roughly matches what she has to offer, that's fair if you ask me.

Then there's the cases where a woman thinks she's worth less than she is. She's less of a challenge than what she offers. This is how my girlfriend is, there's a lot of things about her that I truly do value. She was easy to get, is easy to keep and for all she gives me it makes me want to give back to her. She doesn't make me work hard for it, I like that.

 

[Slash Dolo]

Glad to hear you flake too. I have recently flaked on an HB9 and an HB8. Because I could. It wasn't to play games or to make them chase, but to remind myself that I'm my number one priority.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Society and the media has worked over the past 50-70 years to manipulate men into embracing a life in chains as the norm.

Macho Man magazines in the 50s depicted men having an unset broken nose Like a Real man, his broken nose was “From the War, not the police action.” Korea was a police action, not a declared war, and no member of the Greatest Generation ever let you forget it. The Veteran’s Hospital had separate places for wheelchairs of the Real Men who had gotten crippled in the Real War and the wimps who got that way in Korea. Those who are used to magazine stands today would not recognize the ones in the 1950’s. There were some with titles like Argosy, but they were all carbon copies of one called Men, which featured a scantily-clothed, bound woman on the cover and usually it was Nazis torturing her. Half the magazine stand at least consisted of those magazines, one might label Meaty Men‘s Magazines. Today a label like that would apply to queer stuff. This genre is not even remembered today, but they constituted the bulk of the section where you now find everything from stereo mags to news mags. The generation that demanded those publications liked photos of The War that showed dirty, exhausted soldiers in the War with beards on their faces and cigarettes in their mouths. Today’s young soldiers with their neatness and cleanliness are often looked on by the Greatest Generation as kids playing soldier. In fact, now that Basic has to do something besides beating every last atom of moral courage out of every recruit, those young guys really are soldiers. I have known people who fought for all sides in World War II, and I have never heard a good word said about Americans as soldiers other than by Americans. In fact, if he Italians had not become the joke of the War, American soldier jokes would have dominated.

Yes, today’s army has women in it. But their training is TRAINING. Instead of weeks dedicated to knocking every ounce of actual manhood out of recruits by humiliating and exhausting them, they must fill that time with real training. My guess is that five of today’s soldiers could clear out a platoon of the rabbits the old sadistic training put out. It has been estimated that about 20% of the soldiers in the average big WWII battle did 80% of the shooting. You won’t find that sort of disproportion in today’s army.

Those newsstands were just another way the WWII generation tried to convince itself it was Macho Man. But what I am criticizing is not those soldiers. What I am attacking is the lesson they brought from it, the idea that being humiliated and beaten down makes one Macho Man. As H.L. Mencken said, Americans are generally lousy soldiers. You don’t have to give a European Obedience Training. His whole life, his whole outlook, is Obedience. Those who cease to obey their Uppah Clahss instantly begin to obey the Intellectuals and become socialists. This is where our problems have their basis. Those who ***** about the Boomer Generation and so forth are concentrating on Americans who were raised with the World War II Disease. A whole generation of Americans was fanatically dedicated to the idea that groveling was what a Real Man did. You can’t get more un-American than THAT.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Wow - I read almost that full page and the responses. It almost looks like a gender flipped sosuave discussion. Didn't learn a damn thing that I already didn't know, though. These women aren't honest with each other on that thread because they are not honest with themselves. It was "poor me" over and over again. They see themselves as victims, always.

Straight up hypocrites if you ask me. For every ghost they have experienced they have probably done it to 10 other guys. And let's not forget the orbiters/ex's they collect to feed their ego/validation.

The constant reminder of how beautiful, caring and such a great person they are cracks me up. There's little to no self-reflection at all.

Maybe if they put in the slightest effort in dating they wouldn't be ghosted on. That never dawns on them at all? Miss entitled, of course not!
We ghost because red flags are glaring or quite frankly we have a better option in the queue.

Keep on ghosting fellas!

 

[marmel75]

Straight up hypocrites if you ask me. For every ghost they have experienced they have probably done it to 10 other guys. And let's not forget the orbiters/ex's they collect to feed their ego/validation.

The constant reminder of how beautiful, caring and such a great person they are cracks me up. There's little to no self-reflection at all.

Maybe if they put in the slightest effort in dating they wouldn't be ghosted on. That never dawns on them at all? Miss entitled, of course not!
We ghost because red flags are glaring or quite frankly we have a better option in the queue.

Keep on ghosting fellas!

It's the common human condition....

Even the most hardened criminals who've murdered numerous people will portray themselves to be misunderstood people with a kind heart who would never hurt a fly if you sat down and talked to them long enough. It's not their fault, it was because of how they were raised, how their parents treated them, because their Dad wasn't in their life, etc...it's how humans deal with things and rationalize them to themselves.

Al Capone, probably responsible for the death of well over a hundred people, once said

"I have spent the best years of my life giving people the lighter pleasures, helping them have a good time, and all I get is abuse, the existence of a hunted man."

Al Capone wouldn't even take responsibility for his role in all of his criminal activities, and you are expecting a woman to take responsibility for playing games?

 

[Poon King]

Straight up hypocrites if you ask me. For every ghost they have experienced they have probably done it to 10 other guys. And let's not forget the orbiters/ex's they collect to feed their ego/validation.

The constant reminder of how beautiful, caring and such a great person they are cracks me up. There's little to no self-reflection at all.

Maybe if they put in the slightest effort in dating they wouldn't be ghosted on. That never dawns on them at all? Miss entitled, of course not!
We ghost because red flags are glaring or quite frankly we have a better option in the queue.

Keep on ghosting fellas!

The reason so many women have this attitude is because white knights and blue pill society pushes the policy of "protecting women" at all times. Women and their egos must be protected.

If society constantly protects your ego and tells you nothing you do is ever wrong.. why would you ever take any accountability for your actions or problems? This is why the man is always the "a*shole" when a relationship fails. It doesn't matter how kind he was or mean he was.. if the relationship fails its always because of the man.

This also encourages female hypergamy even more. Again.. because if a woman cheats.. its the man's fault. HE did something wrong. Women are never wrong.

So what is a man to do in this climate? Spin plates of course. If a man must be an "a*shole" he might as well be a happy one.