"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One thing I think you should take with a grain of salt...

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Benwin

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I have read this site and multiple books regarding seduction, picking up chicks, etc. and one common theme seems to be that a woman decides whether she would sleep with you within the first couple minutes. And that if you dont create this attraction early on, its not gonna happen. On multiple occasions, the opposite has occurred. I have been with women who didnt really know me or even think of me that way, but when I turned on the DJ skills then they became instantly attracted to me, how is this explained if those common statements are true? I just saw David Deangelo mention this fact in his DVD
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Benwin
I have read this site and multiple books regarding seduction, picking up chicks, etc. and one common theme seems to be that a woman decides whether she would sleep with you within the first couple minutes. And that if you dont create this attraction early on, its not gonna happen. On multiple occasions, the opposite has occurred. I have been with women who didnt really know me or even think of me that way, but when I turned on the DJ skills then they became instantly attracted to me, how is this explained if those common statements are true? I just saw David Deangelo mention this fact in his DVD
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yeah i believe you can turn attraction on and off, doesnt have to be right away.
 
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I believe that if you listen very carefully to what people say on this subject the general rule of thumb is she decides in the first few seconds if she won't sleep with you. Some guys will go in the no chance department and the rest will go in the give-him-some-rope-and-see-if-he-hangs-himself department.

If you are in the no department it is a tough hole from which to dig yourself. In the other you still have a chance to spark something. If it takes too long for you to spark something you will wind up in the other area.

Don't believe what she tells you about where you are. The fact she is telling you and not walking away probably means you have a chance.
 
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