"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One thing I think you should take with a grain of salt...

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I have read this site and multiple books regarding seduction, picking up chicks, etc. and one common theme seems to be that a woman decides whether she would sleep with you within the first couple minutes. And that if you dont create this attraction early on, its not gonna happen. On multiple occasions, the opposite has occurred. I have been with women who didnt really know me or even think of me that way, but when I turned on the DJ skills then they became instantly attracted to me, how is this explained if those common statements are true? I just saw David Deangelo mention this fact in his DVD
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Benwin
I have read this site and multiple books regarding seduction, picking up chicks, etc. and one common theme seems to be that a woman decides whether she would sleep with you within the first couple minutes. And that if you dont create this attraction early on, its not gonna happen. On multiple occasions, the opposite has occurred. I have been with women who didnt really know me or even think of me that way, but when I turned on the DJ skills then they became instantly attracted to me, how is this explained if those common statements are true? I just saw David Deangelo mention this fact in his DVD
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yeah i believe you can turn attraction on and off, doesnt have to be right away.
 
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I believe that if you listen very carefully to what people say on this subject the general rule of thumb is she decides in the first few seconds if she won't sleep with you. Some guys will go in the no chance department and the rest will go in the give-him-some-rope-and-see-if-he-hangs-himself department.

If you are in the no department it is a tough hole from which to dig yourself. In the other you still have a chance to spark something. If it takes too long for you to spark something you will wind up in the other area.

Don't believe what she tells you about where you are. The fact she is telling you and not walking away probably means you have a chance.
 
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