"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
 
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Arts said:
So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
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Actually no, I don't want to. I need to.

The thing is, a friend of mine asked me to get her seduce her, so that she would lay off, of her boyfriend.
 
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First mistake..using facebook with a girl yuo have no connections with...do it in person....in all honesty, i would never do it online or through any indirect communication

Second mistake..you NEED to...bad mindset..desperation..need..
never need a girl..never think you need a girl..


just do it in person..say hi..make small talk for less than a min...perhaps less than half a minute..then number close
don't ask..tell her you're going somewhere and she shoudl come..then get the number
 
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yeah what you guys said doesnt really help

what you need to do is stalk her
find a place where she hangs out and bump into her there,
(you need to create your own oportunities)
then intorduce yourself (like a cold approach)

You can find a person that knows her and get to know them, make them introduce you to her (more work but easier,the crap way)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Schotten said:
Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
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I was just talking to my girl last night about this. She was telling me how one guy tried hollering at her on Facebook. She thought it was funny as hell:moon: I think most others will to.

I would just do some quick chit chat with clever humor and maybe some sexy comments to test the waters....Do it for a small bit then say something like, I've got to but I'm not really that big into Facebook/online stuff. You seem kind of cool Give me your number and I'll call you sometime.

I mean if you absolutely have no way of talking to her directly this is your best bet. I mean it would be pretty silly trying to set up a date over facebook or something unless you have a real good rapport with them.

Do it over the phone!!!
 
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