"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
 
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Arts said:
So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
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Actually no, I don't want to. I need to.

The thing is, a friend of mine asked me to get her seduce her, so that she would lay off, of her boyfriend.
 
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First mistake..using facebook with a girl yuo have no connections with...do it in person....in all honesty, i would never do it online or through any indirect communication

Second mistake..you NEED to...bad mindset..desperation..need..
never need a girl..never think you need a girl..


just do it in person..say hi..make small talk for less than a min...perhaps less than half a minute..then number close
don't ask..tell her you're going somewhere and she shoudl come..then get the number
 
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yeah what you guys said doesnt really help

what you need to do is stalk her
find a place where she hangs out and bump into her there,
(you need to create your own oportunities)
then intorduce yourself (like a cold approach)

You can find a person that knows her and get to know them, make them introduce you to her (more work but easier,the crap way)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Schotten said:
Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
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I was just talking to my girl last night about this. She was telling me how one guy tried hollering at her on Facebook. She thought it was funny as hell:moon: I think most others will to.

I would just do some quick chit chat with clever humor and maybe some sexy comments to test the waters....Do it for a small bit then say something like, I've got to but I'm not really that big into Facebook/online stuff. You seem kind of cool Give me your number and I'll call you sometime.

I mean if you absolutely have no way of talking to her directly this is your best bet. I mean it would be pretty silly trying to set up a date over facebook or something unless you have a real good rapport with them.

Do it over the phone!!!
 
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