"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
 
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Arts said:
So you want to "get" this girl who you have never met, and who isn't your friend, and who shares no mutual friends with you?

Why?
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Actually no, I don't want to. I need to.

The thing is, a friend of mine asked me to get her seduce her, so that she would lay off, of her boyfriend.
 
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First mistake..using facebook with a girl yuo have no connections with...do it in person....in all honesty, i would never do it online or through any indirect communication

Second mistake..you NEED to...bad mindset..desperation..need..
never need a girl..never think you need a girl..


just do it in person..say hi..make small talk for less than a min...perhaps less than half a minute..then number close
don't ask..tell her you're going somewhere and she shoudl come..then get the number
 
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yeah what you guys said doesnt really help

what you need to do is stalk her
find a place where she hangs out and bump into her there,
(you need to create your own oportunities)
then intorduce yourself (like a cold approach)

You can find a person that knows her and get to know them, make them introduce you to her (more work but easier,the crap way)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Schotten said:
Here's the problem.
I have to get this girl, I know the drill and all. The thing is...
I never met her. All i got is a link to her facebook, but how to start it there?
We have no friends in common, nor are we friends ourselves.

All I want you guys to tell me, is how to start it. The rest I can do myself, but yeah.. Never tried to start something on fb with someone not being on my friendlist.
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I was just talking to my girl last night about this. She was telling me how one guy tried hollering at her on Facebook. She thought it was funny as hell:moon: I think most others will to.

I would just do some quick chit chat with clever humor and maybe some sexy comments to test the waters....Do it for a small bit then say something like, I've got to but I'm not really that big into Facebook/online stuff. You seem kind of cool Give me your number and I'll call you sometime.

I mean if you absolutely have no way of talking to her directly this is your best bet. I mean it would be pretty silly trying to set up a date over facebook or something unless you have a real good rapport with them.

Do it over the phone!!!
 
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