"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One simple question?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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... Obviously something about being very good looking isn't getting you laid as much as you'd like, so you found this site. Try EVERYTHING out.
 
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Originally posted by seanchai
... Obviously something about being very good looking isn't getting you laid as much as you'd like, so you found this site. Try EVERYTHING out.
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Yes, I am trying everything out, I just wanted to know do I do it the same as everybodys else, that is, is the same way!
 
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Originally posted by Amateur_FOR_NOW
Yes, I am trying everything out, I just wanted to know do I do it the same as everybodys else, that is, is the same way!
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Well, I think you might have to modify your game just a tad if you're as "good-looking" as you claim you are. Generally, females are a little bit more shy in their reaction with hot guys, so you might have to be a bit more outgoing and proactive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't think my first reply was very helpful, sorry. Good looking guys have to convey fewer attractive personality characteristics because their physical features already take care of a lot of that. BUT that shouldn't exclude you from adopting the "prize" mindset, etc. People say good looking guys disqualify themselves by being jerks or ****y-funny, but I'm pretty good looking and I'm a pretty big jerk too. If your ****iness is congruent with your whole attitude, then it's just confidence and that's very attractive. So start working on ****y-funny, and when it meshes with your whole character you should be unstoppable.
 
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