Ive said it a few times; I don't think I'm entitled to more women than my wife. I said that I want to be with other women too.
Didn't get married in a church - not religious.
I appreciate your input, but your base assumptions about me and my motivations are incorrect. I'm not entitled to anything but what I work for. Do I want to be with other women? yeah, of course. I'm also not willing to act on this without the willful approval of my wife (I've said this at least 3 times now).
I fundamentally do not believe that cheating is the same between men and women.
Fair enough. The single most important thing in your marriage or any marriage is trust. Trust underpins everything.
So that will mean you must be open & honest about your desires with her, and see how she responds.
That can go one of 3 ways (pun intended):
1. She recoils from the idea
2. She wholesale accepts the idea
3. She initially accepts the idea and then recoils later or expects quid pro quo.
It is option 3 that will bite you in the ass.
If she goes with option 1 and says she is not comfortable with that are you going to drop this whole idea and move on, or are you going keep trying to coerce her?
You must be brutally honest with yourself here. From what you have written I doubt you will accept if her answer is option 1.
And meanwhile you will have unwittingly planted a seed of latent dissatisfaction in your marriage, and that is a nasty tenacious weed with many unforeseen and unanticipated consequences.
You also are blinded by this belief that women cannot have affairs with the same wantoness and depravity of men. You could not be more wrong, and that is a beast you risk unleashing. You are tapped out after you climax. She can take d1ck after d1ck after d1ck literally and take all the climaxes that spend out the men.
Why would a woman ever want a train run on her? It’s about POWER. And she wields much more sexual power than you. Remember I told you this when she asks you to let her pull a train.
You’ll ruin your marriage because based on your content here you are utterly unprepared for the consequences of your proposal.
There is a reason history seeks to control the sexuality of women.
Give that a good hard think.