Does this ring a bell?
* You're dating a woman only to find out you're in a long queue of suitors that she rotates, flakes on, and/or won't sleep with
* Your ex-gf/wife repeatedly f*cked with your head and demonstrated low interest throughout the relationship
* You've been dating a woman for a little while, you get attached, your frame breaks down, and she withdraws instantly
* This woman is always HB9-10 (or at least, she's hotter than you and her physical attractiveness is the main reason you're with her)
* You complain there are no good women left in the world anymore
The interest of a woman is directly proportional to the difference between her SMV and yours.
This is how evolution programmed them. If she's way hotter than you, the "frame" is supposed to protect and isolate you from that so you can either fake higher SMV or break down her initial barriers, but it's temporary and will eventually go away - unless you can keep this up forever, which sounds like a real chore.
Only have interest in women who demonstrate high interest back. If she's not into you, don't be into her. If they're very interested this usually means they have lower SMV than you, and you should be OK with that as long as you are attracted to them. If you're not - well, guess what? Work on yourself and increase your SMV, then go after more attractive women.
Women with lower SMV than you will tolerate slips of frame, nice guy behaviour, and generally make better partners as they are inclined to be more supportive and "work" at the relationship. This doesn't mean you need to look at the bottom of the barrel (unless you have really low SMV yourself), just be realistic.
And, by the way, women nowadays, especially 25+, are aware of "the game", they know about push-pull, they can smell your "frame" a mile away, and the good ones will only tolerate it for so long. If you don't start treating them like human beings after a while they will punish the heck out of you.
* You're dating a woman only to find out you're in a long queue of suitors that she rotates, flakes on, and/or won't sleep with
* Your ex-gf/wife repeatedly f*cked with your head and demonstrated low interest throughout the relationship
* You've been dating a woman for a little while, you get attached, your frame breaks down, and she withdraws instantly
* This woman is always HB9-10 (or at least, she's hotter than you and her physical attractiveness is the main reason you're with her)
* You complain there are no good women left in the world anymore
The interest of a woman is directly proportional to the difference between her SMV and yours.
This is how evolution programmed them. If she's way hotter than you, the "frame" is supposed to protect and isolate you from that so you can either fake higher SMV or break down her initial barriers, but it's temporary and will eventually go away - unless you can keep this up forever, which sounds like a real chore.
Only have interest in women who demonstrate high interest back. If she's not into you, don't be into her. If they're very interested this usually means they have lower SMV than you, and you should be OK with that as long as you are attracted to them. If you're not - well, guess what? Work on yourself and increase your SMV, then go after more attractive women.
Women with lower SMV than you will tolerate slips of frame, nice guy behaviour, and generally make better partners as they are inclined to be more supportive and "work" at the relationship. This doesn't mean you need to look at the bottom of the barrel (unless you have really low SMV yourself), just be realistic.
And, by the way, women nowadays, especially 25+, are aware of "the game", they know about push-pull, they can smell your "frame" a mile away, and the good ones will only tolerate it for so long. If you don't start treating them like human beings after a while they will punish the heck out of you.
