"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One poll to decide them all

Who is the most popular?

  • You

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Me

    Votes: 8 50.0%
  • That guy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • The other guy

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • No, the other other guy

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • how do you use this thing?

    Votes: 4 25.0%

  • Total voters
    16

Aresx

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With the emergence of "popularity" and "credibility" polls & subsequent threads, I, AresX, have decided to create the ultimate poll.

One poll to think about
One poll to sign then
One poll about the moderators
And on the Internet decide them.

Part 1: The Fellowship of the Poll
Part 2: The two choices
Part 3: The Return of apathy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eternal

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Nice choices...
 

Vincent

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I'm so confused

*curls up into a ball in the corner and starts crying*
 

Dee-Zy

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Why is this open???
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Why is this open???
Letting him explain himself. T-12 hours before I lock it though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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