"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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One on one coffee dates with female friends

BannedGod

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How often do you guys do this, outta curiosity? Or do you avoid them at all costs?

I tend to enjoy them, it's a change from action-orientated outings that I do with male friends, I also find that it helps practice my conversation skills

Depending on how busy I am, I tend to do this at least once a week, although sometimes its not one on one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yuma

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Always.

I'm kind of a coffee snob, so as far as I'm concerned, if we go out for coffee, you're on my home turf. I'm comfortable in coffee shops, I wind up knowing the people who work there, and the ones I go to have great atmosphere - perfect for one on one conversations.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct

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BannedGod said:
How often do you guys do this, outta curiosity? Or do you avoid them at all costs?

I tend to enjoy them, it's a change from action-orientated outings that I do with male friends, I also find that it helps practice my conversation skills

Depending on how busy I am, I tend to do this at least once a week, although sometimes its not one on one.
If you are ok being friends with them, it's fine. I have a few female friends that I really like. I wouldn't F them, but I like their company. So we meet up sometimes.
 

Alex DeLarge

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I hang out with female friends pretty often. We don't usually hit a coffee shop though. It's usually in a group and we hangout at someone's place or go to a bar. It's great practice for game and conversational skills. I actually wound up hooking up with two long time female friends I practiced game on.
 
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