"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One OLD Verification Technique...

Lookatu

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Ok, some may know this and others may not. This is somewhat of a good gauge on a few factors including if a potential online match that you plan on meeting up with is accurate or not.

I'm posting this now as I have a date in a couple hours and found out that this gal is using pics from a few years ago. I'll still go for the hell of it because I'm not doing anything tonight and the area I will be in will be littered with young singles. I've done these types of checks with many of the gals I've met online and avoided a couple potential scams/robberies.

Often times on OLD, you really only get the gals first name. But if you end up exchanging or getting her number, that's where you can dig in a bit.

https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/ is a free service that has a good reverse phone search that will bring back quite a few bits of info including her full name.

I tend to put that into Facebook to see if she's posted anything recently. Often times, these gals will take pics from their FB to use in their profile pics and the FB pics have a date stamp on it. That's one way to tell if a gal is using recent pics.

And with a full name, you can also look through Linked In to see where she's worked as an indicator of stability and other things.

It may or may not show accurate current address. Do NOT use this info to stalk them. It's just nice to be able to tell her decision making process and her tastes and such by looking to see if she lives in bad, good, glitzy neighborhoods. For tonight's example, I know she most likely lives with 2 other roommates possibly and her inviting me back to her place will probably be low.

For the older guys, you can also tell if a woman has been married or possibly still married based on possible relatives and such that are listed.

Of course some of the young gals will naturally yield results from just doing a general google search on them without this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok, some may know this and others may not. This is somewhat of a good gauge on a few factors including if a potential online match that you plan on meeting up with is accurate or not.

I'm posting this now as I have a date in a couple hours and found out that this gal is using pics from a few years ago. I'll still go for the hell of it because I'm not doing anything tonight and the area I will be in will be littered with young singles. I've done these types of checks with many of the gals I've met online and avoided a couple potential scams/robberies.

Often times on OLD, you really only get the gals first name. But if you end up exchanging or getting her number, that's where you can dig in a bit.

https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/ is a free service that has a good reverse phone search that will bring back quite a few bits of info including her full name.

I tend to put that into Facebook to see if she's posted anything recently. Often times, these gals will take pics from their FB to use in their profile pics and the FB pics have a date stamp on it. That's one way to tell if a gal is using recent pics.

And with a full name, you can also look through Linked In to see where she's worked as an indicator of stability and other things.

It may or may not show accurate current address. Do NOT use this info to stalk them. It's just nice to be able to tell her decision making process and her tastes and such by looking to see if she lives in bad, good, glitzy neighborhoods. For tonight's example, I know she most likely lives with 2 other roommates possibly and her inviting me back to her place will probably be low.

For the older guys, you can also tell if a woman has been married or possibly still married based on possible relatives and such that are listed.

Of course some of the young gals will naturally yield results from just doing a general google search on them without this.
Bro, haven't you been married for 17 years?
 

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Listen men. If she's on OLD and is not providing sex for money there is something wrong with her. Maybe she's 6'4" tall, or used to be thin and now a bit fatter, or psycho, or has 6 kids, it doesn't matter. There is no normal women on OLD, unless they provide sex for money. I'm not saying don't use OLD, use, but realize it's for fcking only, and please do use rubber.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where are you from? Apparently this doesn't work where I'm at.
 

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Good topic and since I'm a former old pro (I'm no longer doing the personals) ... but I'll add a few things.

First off, you do not want to look at her facebook profile with your legitimate facebook page. I don't know how the algorithms work, but I've gotten old girlfriends to show up under the "friends you might know" (and they aren't friends with any of my friends). That tells me that they looked me up. In other words, be sure to have a 'dummy profile' for your snooping.

You also want to check other online sites too. You may discover inconsistencies between the profiles and that's also a red flag.

If you've exchanged e-mail address, here's another tip. Let's say that her e-mail is imadumbblondeinfl@ yahhoo , com (you do a google search for "imadumbblondeinfl" and if the e-mail address is unique enough, there's a good chance that she's used this same user-name elsewhere.

You can also go to "google's "image search" option. You click her photo and then drag it into the google image search box and if it's out there, it'll sometimes bring up other sites where the photo has also resided.

Back when I was doing some serious on line... I saved myself some valuable time by doing a bit of research beforehand. If her photos are shoulders and up, her facebook account will usually provide a full body shot somewhere.

By doing some research, I've also avoided meeting a couple of married women also.

The more you learn beforehand, the more likely you'll end up cancelling some dates. In my past experience, I'd say that I only followed through with about 50% because the other 50% were dishonest.
 

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I’ve had a few Tinder matches demand I Facetime them before they would agree to a date. I suppose OP could try this too.
 

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I have used that verification technique in the first post when I have used swipe apps.
 

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Good topic and since I'm a former old pro (I'm no longer doing the personals) ... but I'll add a few things.

First off, you do not want to look at her facebook profile with your legitimate facebook page. I don't know how the algorithms work, but I've gotten old girlfriends to show up under the "friends you might know" (and they aren't friends with any of my friends). That tells me that they looked me up. In other words, be sure to have a 'dummy profile' for your snooping.

You also want to check other online sites too. You may discover inconsistencies between the profiles and that's also a red flag.

If you've exchanged e-mail address, here's another tip. Let's say that her e-mail is imadumbblondeinfl@ yahhoo , com (you do a google search for "imadumbblondeinfl" and if the e-mail address is unique enough, there's a good chance that she's used this same user-name elsewhere.

You can also go to "google's "image search" option. You click her photo and then drag it into the google image search box and if it's out there, it'll sometimes bring up other sites where the photo has also resided.

Back when I was doing some serious on line... I saved myself some valuable time by doing a bit of research beforehand. If her photos are shoulders and up, her facebook account will usually provide a full body shot somewhere.

By doing some research, I've also avoided meeting a couple of married women also.

The more you learn beforehand, the more likely you'll end up cancelling some dates. In my past experience, I'd say that I only followed through with about 50% because the other 50% were dishonest.
I agree with all of this. The site I mentioned has possible email addresses associated with their name which has been pretty accurate. Sometimes if you just do a google search on their email addresses, you can sometimes find what type of forums or hobby sites they belong to. This can also be valuable information.

But bottom line is, it's another good way to screen beforehand so you're not wasting your time. Some guys here have way less of it than others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I’ve had a few Tinder matches demand I Facetime them before they would agree to a date. I suppose OP could try this too.
I can't do this in my situation, plus it gives the gal a chance to ask you for a house tour and such. It can work with some people but just not mine.
 
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