"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One obstacle I can't figure out...

WhAcKeD!

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Older women. I love them (if they are hot). Usually between 28-40, again if they are only attractive to me. I always make moves on them, and they flirt back, but I always get this question:

How old are you?

I can never come up with a good response to this. I am 19, so I think if I come right out and say 19, they will feel like pedophiles or something. Anyone have any input about this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aww, man don't even worry about it. Most of them that would date a 19 yr. old are looking for a ONS or just a fling. Realistically, you can't have a relationship with an older woman, so why try? If they don't like your age, so what?

In my experiences, you have to make up the lack of age with more confidence. I love that challenge...
 

WhAcKeD!

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Thanks for the input bro. Yeah, no way in hell would I look for a relationship in a girl that age, I want pvssy dammit! There is just something that turns me on about that age group, not sure what it is yet lol.

One thing is for sure, it is an awesome challenge.
 

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Women in their 30s love to fvck and have lost their inhibitions that younger women have.

If they ask your age, use c&f. like...

"I'm a very mature 20 years old"

"I'm 20, can you handle a young stud"

"Age doesn't matter, its what's inside a person that counts

Say that you're 20 because it doesn't end with -teen ,
 

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Exactly, I know women in their 30's are in their sexual prime, so I try and take advantage of this as best as I can (lots of kino and sexual innuendos). Good responses there, I will try some of them out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not all women are the same. Most girls do most of their ****ing in their late teens and early twenties (same as most guys).

The only thing I would say that's general is as we grow up we all become less superficial especially those that have been round the block.
 

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rocky_mtn said:
"I'm 20, can you handle a young stud"
and make sure you make a small pause after "young", and then accent the "stud":D


Ask her to guess, and then don't tell her....just keep her guessing....
 

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This is definetely a challenge...there is this 33 year old that wants to meet me, and she is pretty damn bangin. 14 years age difference. Since I can't even buy a damn beer yet, I wonder if I should just ask her if she wants to watch a movie at her house or something.

This will be interesting...
 

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lol...she just threw the pedophile thing at me. Older women are definetely harder. Now to come up with a counter...
 

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Tell her you're legal, and tease her, ask her if she feels dirty with a younger man.

Or if she brings up the pedophile thing, ask her if she knows the difference between a boy and a real man. Then go on to say that you're 110% real man in your prime.

Then turn it around on her. Say that most women your age are too immature and you like women who have some experience. Tell her that she might have trouble keeping up with you, but you'll go easy on her. Tell her that you think she sounds like fun or you'd like to get together (use your own words), even though she's past her prime (neg hit, but still a come-on)


I'm in my mid 30s and picking up college chicks, its all about confidence.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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