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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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One night stand round 2 problem

judoalex

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Heres my situation

any tips wll be appreciated


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My friend introduced me to a girl and he gave me her phone number. I called her without meeting here and we just had an amazing conversation and connected at many levels and talked for over 2 hrs. Then we talked again teh next day and we decided to meet 2 days from that day. She straight out invited me to her house cause she doesnt like crowded places and walking around(its like this everywhere in tokyo) so she invited me to her place to make dinner together/hang out aka ****. i gave kino, and i got her very comfortable. then we put a movie on and i stuck 4 fingers in her then ****ed her for 3 hours cause i know how to hold my seeds in. We are casually talking about what positions we like, and playfully saying it wont fit, etc..

i gave her hickies all over her neck too and she has work/school and she wasnt even mad.

then the last train was gone so i ended up spending the night and we even showered together and slept in the same bed. we didnt feel the awkwardness/emptiness after which was good. then the morning came and everything was casual then she had to go to school in the morning so we said by at the station.

we talkied over the phone a few hours later saying that her teachers yelled at her and etc for the hickies and her friends were mad at her

since then its been hard contacting hergetting text responses..im not really looking for a relationship but i just want to **** her cause shes a good **** and i really enjoy talking to this girl as a friend..any ideas to get her back in bed?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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donjuanjovi

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You must have very small fingers.

It's hard for us to give you tips to follow if you can't really get a hold of her. If you do get a hold of her, just tell her you want to f*** her again and you should meet up. There's a reason they call these things ONE night stands!
 

judoalex

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Lol my fingers are above average. I know i can get a hold of her but i am not sure what to say to comfort her/ start a good conversation. weve talked over the phone once after and i could tell it wasnt the same. i have nothing to lose gimme something

plus i dont really see it as a ne night stand..do you
 

Mr_rogers

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judoalex said:
Lol my fingers are above average. I know i can get a hold of her but i am not sure what to say to comfort her/ start a good conversation. weve talked over the phone once after and i could tell it wasnt the same. i have nothing to lose gimme something

plus i dont really see it as a ne night stand..do you
When you consider that one night stand is in the title... yes, yes we do consider it a one night stand.

Try a couple more times and if you don't get anywhere with it, just forget her. Probably not worth the headache.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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