"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One night stand round 2 problem

judoalex

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Heres my situation

any tips wll be appreciated


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My friend introduced me to a girl and he gave me her phone number. I called her without meeting here and we just had an amazing conversation and connected at many levels and talked for over 2 hrs. Then we talked again teh next day and we decided to meet 2 days from that day. She straight out invited me to her house cause she doesnt like crowded places and walking around(its like this everywhere in tokyo) so she invited me to her place to make dinner together/hang out aka ****. i gave kino, and i got her very comfortable. then we put a movie on and i stuck 4 fingers in her then ****ed her for 3 hours cause i know how to hold my seeds in. We are casually talking about what positions we like, and playfully saying it wont fit, etc..

i gave her hickies all over her neck too and she has work/school and she wasnt even mad.

then the last train was gone so i ended up spending the night and we even showered together and slept in the same bed. we didnt feel the awkwardness/emptiness after which was good. then the morning came and everything was casual then she had to go to school in the morning so we said by at the station.

we talkied over the phone a few hours later saying that her teachers yelled at her and etc for the hickies and her friends were mad at her

since then its been hard contacting hergetting text responses..im not really looking for a relationship but i just want to **** her cause shes a good **** and i really enjoy talking to this girl as a friend..any ideas to get her back in bed?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donjuanjovi

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You must have very small fingers.

It's hard for us to give you tips to follow if you can't really get a hold of her. If you do get a hold of her, just tell her you want to f*** her again and you should meet up. There's a reason they call these things ONE night stands!
 

judoalex

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Lol my fingers are above average. I know i can get a hold of her but i am not sure what to say to comfort her/ start a good conversation. weve talked over the phone once after and i could tell it wasnt the same. i have nothing to lose gimme something

plus i dont really see it as a ne night stand..do you
 

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judoalex said:
Lol my fingers are above average. I know i can get a hold of her but i am not sure what to say to comfort her/ start a good conversation. weve talked over the phone once after and i could tell it wasnt the same. i have nothing to lose gimme something

plus i dont really see it as a ne night stand..do you
When you consider that one night stand is in the title... yes, yes we do consider it a one night stand.

Try a couple more times and if you don't get anywhere with it, just forget her. Probably not worth the headache.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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