"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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one night stand gone bad

88keys

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I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
Is there any chance your G/F will find out?
 

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?




Showing up where?




Sayno'
 

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She's a big girl, she will get over it.

if she opened her legs for you that quickly, you've got nothing to feel guilty about (with her).

Funny you should feel guilty about this Ho you had a one night stand with - and didn't even mention any guilt for your GF. It's her you want to feel remorse about.
 
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