"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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88keys

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I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
Is there any chance your G/F will find out?
 

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?




Showing up where?




Sayno'
 

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She's a big girl, she will get over it.

if she opened her legs for you that quickly, you've got nothing to feel guilty about (with her).

Funny you should feel guilty about this Ho you had a one night stand with - and didn't even mention any guilt for your GF. It's her you want to feel remorse about.
 
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