"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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one night stand gone bad

88keys

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I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

white sox bill

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?
Is there any chance your G/F will find out?
 

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Originally posted by 88keys
need advice


I recently had sex with a woman who thought I wasn't in a relationship. It wasn't that i lied,i just didn't tell her. since she found out she started showing up with hickeys on her neck and showing hostility towards me. at first i was mad but now i feel guilty. I know i was wrong but that was not my intention.

any thoughts on how i should handle this problem?




Showing up where?




Sayno'
 

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She's a big girl, she will get over it.

if she opened her legs for you that quickly, you've got nothing to feel guilty about (with her).

Funny you should feel guilty about this Ho you had a one night stand with - and didn't even mention any guilt for your GF. It's her you want to feel remorse about.
 
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