"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I picked up this girl at the club made her drink, kino all the other stuff and toke her to my place, banged her many times then told her that I had to go to the church early in the morning so she had to leave, which she did.

Now she is sending me many texts saying that I should have not treated her as a wh0re and should have let her stay and if she were me she would pay attention because "bad things happen to those who behave bad", she made also many other different threats through many texts which Im taking seriously since she knows where my home is.

What do you think about it? she was very freaky in bed definitely not what we consider a normal girl, tattos on her lower back and many other tramp stamp, a messed up head in a cute body.

Should I go to the police and say about it so in case she attacks me near my home and I knock her out they dont blame me? or just let it go in hope she forgets it....I mean after all those texts it seems she is pretty pissed off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL she acted like a *****. So of course you treated her like one.

Call the cops if she does something.
 

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never take her to your place......... I don't even like to have potential gfs knowing where I live,for at least a month
 

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Crap like this can make pick-up lifestyle overrated and a little overbearing. If you go to the cops, they won't take you seriously. Odds are she has NO idea the specific location at which you live, only the general idea. Hopefully she doesn't remember your whole name!

However, if the messages come in a week from now...you may have cause for more legitimate concern at that point.
 

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Saying bad things happen to bad people...is that really a threat?

Sounds like she likes you. You could turn her into a FB? Just be sure to invite us all to the wedding. JK..good luck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fatal Jay said:
never take her to your place......... I don't even like to have potential gfs knowing where I live,for at least a month
yup - go to theirs.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
So I picked up this girl at the club made her drink, kino all the other stuff and toke her to my place, banged her many times then told her that I had to go to the church early in the morning so she had to leave, which she did.
That's a good one :D
 

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She is looking for a reaction. She wants to scare you and she wants ATTENTION.

If you respond at all say something like: "Was the sex really that amazing for you? I know I'm good in bed but...."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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send the massages to your second secret phone (DJ's should always have one) they are recorded there.....

Send her a message back saying that you really really like her, but are at the psychiatrists trying to work out issues around your childhood, and you tend to push people away that you like (either she will think your a nut and stay away, or reveal BPD colours and u can use her as a pump and dump with no problems ;)
 

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i have had similar problems..one chick who i pumped and dumped a few times was making threats recently saying i have never had to see the evil side of her and the things that she was capable of...i simply played coy and acted really nice explaining i had a lot of personal issues going on and i really liked her and was scared of how much i liked her...that way it didn't hurt her ego too much and she simmered down......and she knew where i lived too that's why I was scared.....when you get right down to it it's ALL about their ego...

But you never know what kind of crazy brothers or guy friends they have...i mean i would probably beat the crap out of or at least want to some guy who my sister claimed mistreated her....so you have to be careful because who knows how much the girl will exaggerate things... so contray to what others say, i wouldn't ignore her...for all you know she could be a gang banger's sister or something...probably not, but who knows....satisfy her ego and if the threats continue, go to the cops..don't underestimate what women are capable of when their egos are threatened..


One girl who felt like a slut after i banged her with her friends sleeping on the floor next to us in college after a house party claimed i raped her..lol...women are evil man...glad that one didn't know where i lived because a whole slew of her white knight guy friends were looking for me
 

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Which is why she will remain a one night stand tramp for you and others. She is highly unstable and she has no problems expressing it. I had one I slept with 3 nights in a row tell me she would shoot me with her pistols if I beat her dogs or her...what a great way to get anything meaningful started right off the bat with ANYONE.
 

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zinc4 said:
i have had similar problems..one chick who i pumped and dumped a few times was making threats recently saying i have never had to see the evil side of her and the things that she was capable of...i simply played coy and acted really nice explaining i had a lot of personal issues going on and i really liked her and was scared of how much i liked her...that way it didn't hurt her ego too much and she simmered down......and she knew where i lived too that's why I was scared.....when you get right down to it it's ALL about their ego...

But you never know what kind of crazy brothers or guy friends they have...i mean i would probably beat the crap out of or at least want to some guy who my sister claimed mistreated her....so you have to be careful because who knows how much the girl will exaggerate things... so contray to what others say, i wouldn't ignore her...for all you know she could be a gang banger's sister or something...probably not, but who knows....satisfy her ego and if the threats continue, go to the cops..don't underestimate what women are capable of when their egos are threatened..


One girl who felt like a slut after i banged her with her friends sleeping on the floor next to us in college after a house party claimed i raped her..lol...women are evil man...glad that one didn't know where i lived because a whole slew of her white knight guy friends were looking for me
More proof that men are second class citizens. Only women are truly free to do as they please... including destroying men.

This is why I said in another thread you have to be a borderline sociopath to get RESPECT from women. In reality, a woman must fear you on some level or she will f*ck you up if you bruise her ego.

This is a fun watch from The Sopranos that relates to this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNwP9J2Sih4

A woman with a bruised ego will even attack a mob boss :crackup: (I know its a TV show, but its a good example of how crazy and dangerous the female ego can be)
 

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Who Dares Win said:
So I picked up this girl at the club made her drink, kino all the other stuff and toke her to my place, banged her many times then told her that I had to go to the church early in the morning so she had to leave, which she did.

Now she is sending me many texts saying that I should have not treated her as a wh0re and should have let her stay and if she were me she would pay attention because "bad things happen to those who behave bad", she made also many other different threats through many texts which Im taking seriously since she knows where my home is.

What do you think about it? she was very freaky in bed definitely not what we consider a normal girl, tattos on her lower back and many other tramp stamp, a messed up head in a cute body.

Should I go to the police and say about it so in case she attacks me near my home and I knock her out they dont blame me? or just let it go in hope she forgets it....I mean after all those texts it seems she is pretty pissed off.

Keep away at all costs from these types of chicks. Keep the texts but ignore and don't reply.

These are the same " Threatening Tuffgirl Theresa's" who'll turn like a lightswitch to "Vicky the Victim" as soon as the authorities are involved.

Same thing with dudes who're "Bobby Badazz" then get their jaws broke and immediately transform into "Suing you Sam".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Really kind of rude to kick a girl out in the middle of the night with no warning. Guys here should be rewarding chicks for sleeping with them quickly and easily. That means NOT treating her badly at the very least. Treat them badly when they DON'T put out for you, not when they do.

SMH
 

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Zarky said:
Really kind of rude to kick a girl out in the middle of the night with no warning. Guys here should be rewarding chicks for sleeping with them quickly and easily. That means NOT treating her badly at the very least. Treat them badly when they DON'T put out for you, not when they do.

SMH
Rofl. I nearly spilled my coffee.

Please tell you're joking. He doesn't owe her any "respect". She was treated accordingly to what she is. I don't know if that registers with you capt save a ho. I'd be better off assuming that it didn't.
 

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Clearly the IQ level of this forum has dropped even lower. I'm not talking about "respect," I'm talking about rewarding women for putting out so they will be more likely to do so in the future.

Look up the term "Behaviorism." Study it, learn it, know it, use it. Please don't burden the rest of us with your ignorance.

When you treat people poorly after they do something that benefits you, you are shooting yourself in the foot.

When men treat women who put out badly, it makes them less likely to put out, which makes it harder for men to get laid.

What is so difficult about this concept?

It has nothing to do with me caring about women, it has to do with me caring about getting laid easily. Look up the terms "positive reinforcement," "negative reinforcement," "reward," "punishment." Come back when you're able to discuss these concepts intelligently.
 

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Zarky - do you mean to reward women for putting out so that they will put out for other men?

Women who put out easily - normally have a history of putting out easy. In fact, most women will put out easy if the right guy's hands are touching them.

They may get more of a bitter "I hate men, players, cheaters, etc." type attitude - but, they'll still continue to fall for those types.... Over and over.

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I normally do sleep with a woman after I fvck her though - mainly because I'll too tired to care. I always have a reason for her to leave in the morning though.
 

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Zarky said:
Clearly the IQ level of this forum has dropped even lower. I'm not talking about "respect," I'm talking about rewarding women for putting out so they will be more likely to do so in the future.

Look up the term "Behaviorism." Study it, learn it, know it, use it. Please don't burden the rest of us with your ignorance.

When you treat people poorly after they do something that benefits you, you are shooting yourself in the foot.

When men treat women who put out badly, it makes them less likely to put out, which makes it harder for men to get laid.

What is so difficult about this concept?

It has nothing to do with me caring about women, it has to do with me caring about getting laid easily. Look up the terms "positive reinforcement," "negative reinforcement," "reward," "punishment." Come back when you're able to discuss these concepts intelligently.
The difficult part about the concept is that it sounds good in theory but in the real world it would only be a disaster. In fact it already is. For other human applications it would be more likely to work but definitely not for cases in which we are currently discussing. I urge you to put that phenomenal IQ of yours to work and test out your theory that way you can watch it blow up in your face.

If anything this can only work against the entire male gender (again, it already is). A ONS is a ONS is a ONS. Treat it as such.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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