"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oneboy21

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I was talking to this girl on POF and after exchanging couple of emails, i suggested we should text and sent her an email with my number.
she replied and says " no thanks, texting is more difficult for me than typing"
How should i respond/deal with this
 

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sinnerman

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"that's pretty awesome coz i find typing difficult. so lets go the old fashion way & just talk on phone.more convenient for both of us."

if she again comes up with some lame excuse. go NC. Her IL is way down if she is not exchanging numbers
 

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If a girl can't even give you her number, then it's not a s*it test. She's not interested.

You gotta understand, some of these online chicks are just in it for the attention.
 

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I think the first mistake is giving her your number instead of asking for hers.

Second mistake (could be, didn't see the convo so I don't know) asking for the number so quickly and possibly without building any fun/flirty banter. You have to provoke some kind of excitement and emotion if she's going to be interested enough to let you have her personal information.


One thing I like to do (have used this several times) is to flip the script, tease them, and say that I'm afraid they're a creepy old guy trying to lure good looking guys on dating sites. I do this after a few fun emails have been exchanged. I say something about needing to hear their voice to make sure they're not a guy. Sounds cheesy, but I've always gotten a great response from this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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