"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One more **** test!

oneboy21

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I was talking to this girl on POF and after exchanging couple of emails, i suggested we should text and sent her an email with my number.
she replied and says " no thanks, texting is more difficult for me than typing"
How should i respond/deal with this
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sinnerman

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"that's pretty awesome coz i find typing difficult. so lets go the old fashion way & just talk on phone.more convenient for both of us."

if she again comes up with some lame excuse. go NC. Her IL is way down if she is not exchanging numbers
 

Iceberg

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If a girl can't even give you her number, then it's not a s*it test. She's not interested.

You gotta understand, some of these online chicks are just in it for the attention.
 

49au

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I think the first mistake is giving her your number instead of asking for hers.

Second mistake (could be, didn't see the convo so I don't know) asking for the number so quickly and possibly without building any fun/flirty banter. You have to provoke some kind of excitement and emotion if she's going to be interested enough to let you have her personal information.


One thing I like to do (have used this several times) is to flip the script, tease them, and say that I'm afraid they're a creepy old guy trying to lure good looking guys on dating sites. I do this after a few fun emails have been exchanged. I say something about needing to hear their voice to make sure they're not a guy. Sounds cheesy, but I've always gotten a great response from this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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