"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One month anniversary

Matty

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I've been dating this girl for about 6 months, and she's been my girlfriend for three weeks (approaching one month). I wanted to do something small, and unexpected to let her know I remembered the day we became official. (Kind of gay, but she totally won't expect it, considering I don't do gifts.) My thought was to buy ONE flower (probably lilacs, because she hates roses) and leave a small card saying, "You've been blessed for one month, baby. Count your lucky stars." Or something to that effect. I haven't really thought it through. Commentary?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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romangod

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Forget it.


Cheers!
 

Da Realist

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Dude, it's only been one month. I could understand if it were her idea, but you doing it comes off as desperate. Just slow down and have fun. You can show her you want her around without giving her a gift for being your gf every month. I say wait till you've been with her a year and then do something really special.
 
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The odd romantic gesture doesn't hurt, but a month of being in a relationship really doesn't warrant it. What are you going to do when two months pass? Three months pass? Get this ridiculous notion out of your noggin mate and just enjoy the "honeymoon" period of the relationship, there will be enough time to get serious later on as the relationship progresses.
 

DonJuanit0

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Energizer said:
The odd romantic gesture doesn't hurt
That's not even romance :p

Matty, how does she knows that you don't give gifts, within a month? If you get her one in the first month she'll know the opposite! :)

As Energizer said what are you gonna buy her 2-3 months after? He is absolutely right! You can simply remind her that it's been a month since you got together and kiss her! Nothin more...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kokane

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Say, 'Wow its been a month since we got together. Here's something special.' Then, play around a little with her face, cheeks, neck with ur lips and then give her the kiss of her life. She will never forget u if done properly.
 

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You know what's great for a one month anniversary?

Anal sex. Remind her that its been a month that you've allowed her the grace of your prescence, and that she's welcome to wear something sexy to bed to thank you. Think Fredricks, not VS.

Damnit, doesn't anyone hear understand that YOU are the prize?
 

mtlwlu

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Good intentions but honestly I think it screams AFC, if anything take her out on a date doing something you guys never done before.
 

Julian

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Age : 12 (im assuming)
 

Luscious

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Matty said:
I've been dating this girl for about 6 months, and she's been my girlfriend for three weeks (approaching one month). I wanted to do something small, and unexpected to let her know I remembered the day we became official. (Kind of gay, but she totally won't expect it, considering I don't do gifts.) My thought was to buy ONE flower (probably lilacs, because she hates roses) and leave a small card saying, "You've been blessed for one month, baby. Count your lucky stars." Or something to that effect. I haven't really thought it through. Commentary?
No dice, champ. This is your AFC poking through.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thyme

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scrouds said:
You know what's great for a one month anniversary?

Anal sex.

i seriously laughed my a*s off when i read this. thank you man seriously that was good stuff (and it gets the point across too)
 
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