"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One mistake and it's all over really makes women look like dumb children.

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Pisses me off to no end how if a guy makes even one damn mistake it's over for him. I really do think it's crap like this that make men abuse or just snap on women. We males built this world around women and here they are acting like snob *****es just because their lazy ass looks pretty.

I really am trying hard to like women but I just see no end to their hypergamous minds. I bet even pook got sick of this world of illusions and mind games. Talking to women IS NOT FUN AT ALL. When was the last time you could honestly chat with a girl about quantum science? or how about Skyrim? Nope. Pretty much all women talk about the same god damn boring ****. It's driving me mad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's true, in the early stages it just seems to take one little thing. Of course once you make the gina tingle you could ass rape her mother and she'd find a way to forgive you.

Talking to women is dull as ****. I only talk to them to gain access to their vagina. Otherwise I just wouldn't bother at all.
 
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It depends on the kind of women you're going after. The good looking ones are usually dull and stupid. It matches their lifestyle. They also tend to be stuck up and high maintenance, and lose interest as quickly as they gain it. Any little thing causes them to lose interest. But they still feel entitled to keep people around as options.

The reason is because they can. They can be shallow, stupid, mean, picky, etc, and men will still like them. They know this. They know they can place no value upon anyone, and still get away with it.
 
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If a few million guys would blow off US women for 3rd worlders (who do NOT treat men like this) the US broads would have no choice but to change their ways. Face it, guys, US men have ruined the women here. They've molested them, raped them, beaten them, idolized, spoiled and otherwise ruined them. Why waste your time and money on them, when many millions of 3rd world women are awating your interest? Sure, some of them are scamming to get money from you, but compared to US women, they only try to get 10% as much! :) If you put a $10 bill per week in a letter to her, it's like $200 a week here, she will love you for it, and you'll never miss it. Another possibility is women in prison here in the US, $20 a month changes her world in there! Check out jailhousebabes.com. Free addies and names, by state and Fed prisons, too.
 
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this is why its so important to structure everything properly in the beginning so that she reacts to you, instead of you reacting to her

she should be concerned with making sure she keeps you, while you shouldn't care one way or the other because its still early on, you aren't in love with her, you've been hitting homeruns in the bedroom, and you know if this chick flakes you can easily replace her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aaron B said:
this is why its so important to structure everything properly in the beginning so that she reacts to you, instead of you reacting to her

she should be concerned with making sure she keeps you, while you shouldn't care one way or the other because its still early on, you aren't in love with her, you've been hitting homeruns in the bedroom, and you know if this chick flakes you can easily replace her
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yep, set the tone early and stick to it. very important.

I always tell myself "be on the right side of the equation" be chased, dont chase, let them worry, dont worry, let her wonder why u didnt call, not you wonder.. etc.
 
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st_99 said:
yep, set the tone early and stick to it. very important.

I always tell myself "be on the right side of the equation" be chased, dont chase, let them worry, dont worry, let her wonder why u didnt call, not you wonder.. etc.
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words to live by.
 
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Don't get mad about it. Embrace it.

Just wish her well and be on your merry way. You saved yourself a mountain of headaches.

Don't try to explain yourself or argue your way back into her good graces, just let her go, and go find other women.

She may even try to apologize or reconnect in some way. Don't fall for it, she just wants to know why you just walked away so easily and didn't even fight for her. Don't give her the satisfaction. Move on.
 
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