"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One mistake and it's all over really makes women look like dumb children.

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Pisses me off to no end how if a guy makes even one damn mistake it's over for him. I really do think it's crap like this that make men abuse or just snap on women. We males built this world around women and here they are acting like snob *****es just because their lazy ass looks pretty.

I really am trying hard to like women but I just see no end to their hypergamous minds. I bet even pook got sick of this world of illusions and mind games. Talking to women IS NOT FUN AT ALL. When was the last time you could honestly chat with a girl about quantum science? or how about Skyrim? Nope. Pretty much all women talk about the same god damn boring ****. It's driving me mad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's true, in the early stages it just seems to take one little thing. Of course once you make the gina tingle you could ass rape her mother and she'd find a way to forgive you.

Talking to women is dull as ****. I only talk to them to gain access to their vagina. Otherwise I just wouldn't bother at all.
 

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It depends on the kind of women you're going after. The good looking ones are usually dull and stupid. It matches their lifestyle. They also tend to be stuck up and high maintenance, and lose interest as quickly as they gain it. Any little thing causes them to lose interest. But they still feel entitled to keep people around as options.

The reason is because they can. They can be shallow, stupid, mean, picky, etc, and men will still like them. They know this. They know they can place no value upon anyone, and still get away with it.
 

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If a few million guys would blow off US women for 3rd worlders (who do NOT treat men like this) the US broads would have no choice but to change their ways. Face it, guys, US men have ruined the women here. They've molested them, raped them, beaten them, idolized, spoiled and otherwise ruined them. Why waste your time and money on them, when many millions of 3rd world women are awating your interest? Sure, some of them are scamming to get money from you, but compared to US women, they only try to get 10% as much! :) If you put a $10 bill per week in a letter to her, it's like $200 a week here, she will love you for it, and you'll never miss it. Another possibility is women in prison here in the US, $20 a month changes her world in there! Check out jailhousebabes.com. Free addies and names, by state and Fed prisons, too.
 

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this is why its so important to structure everything properly in the beginning so that she reacts to you, instead of you reacting to her

she should be concerned with making sure she keeps you, while you shouldn't care one way or the other because its still early on, you aren't in love with her, you've been hitting homeruns in the bedroom, and you know if this chick flakes you can easily replace her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aaron B said:
this is why its so important to structure everything properly in the beginning so that she reacts to you, instead of you reacting to her

she should be concerned with making sure she keeps you, while you shouldn't care one way or the other because its still early on, you aren't in love with her, you've been hitting homeruns in the bedroom, and you know if this chick flakes you can easily replace her
yep, set the tone early and stick to it. very important.

I always tell myself "be on the right side of the equation" be chased, dont chase, let them worry, dont worry, let her wonder why u didnt call, not you wonder.. etc.
 

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st_99 said:
yep, set the tone early and stick to it. very important.

I always tell myself "be on the right side of the equation" be chased, dont chase, let them worry, dont worry, let her wonder why u didnt call, not you wonder.. etc.
words to live by.
 

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Don't get mad about it. Embrace it.

Just wish her well and be on your merry way. You saved yourself a mountain of headaches.

Don't try to explain yourself or argue your way back into her good graces, just let her go, and go find other women.

She may even try to apologize or reconnect in some way. Don't fall for it, she just wants to know why you just walked away so easily and didn't even fight for her. Don't give her the satisfaction. Move on.
 
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