"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BlackAnkle

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This isn't advice from me. I'm actually asking a question to those of you who have experience which perpetuates mine.

One Itis is a hard thing, I've learned over the years to get over it. My method is simply having multiple girls in an abundance mentality. And this works, 99% of the time. But I often get confused. Where is the line drawn between actually caring deeply for someone and A desperation filled OneItis. I want to care and be passionate, more deeply than just the hookup itself. I'm not in this community for a plethora of hookups, although that Is a fun thing. I'm here for something deeper, meeting the absolute girl of my dreams, who I'm crazy about, and who I can be totally involved with but not invested in 100%, so how could one care for someone and show them how much they care without just being a desperate, one Itis filled AFC?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have always thought that it is only considered Oneitis when you have no chance of getting the girl. If it is a girl that you like and she likes you back then it is not Oneitis. It is simply mutual attraction which is a great thing. Don't be worried about being an AFC if you like only 1 girl. If she doesn't like you back but you still keep chasing her then you are being an AFC. But if it is a mutual attraction and you only work on getting the one girl, it is not Oneitis.
 
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Don't get too caught up in oneitis and pua acronyms. It's OK to like a girl, something I didn't fully grasp until recently. Being grounded and having good control of your emotions - often through self-improvement - or having an abundance mentality will keep oneitis away from you.
 
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