"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BlackAnkle

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This isn't advice from me. I'm actually asking a question to those of you who have experience which perpetuates mine.

One Itis is a hard thing, I've learned over the years to get over it. My method is simply having multiple girls in an abundance mentality. And this works, 99% of the time. But I often get confused. Where is the line drawn between actually caring deeply for someone and A desperation filled OneItis. I want to care and be passionate, more deeply than just the hookup itself. I'm not in this community for a plethora of hookups, although that Is a fun thing. I'm here for something deeper, meeting the absolute girl of my dreams, who I'm crazy about, and who I can be totally involved with but not invested in 100%, so how could one care for someone and show them how much they care without just being a desperate, one Itis filled AFC?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have always thought that it is only considered Oneitis when you have no chance of getting the girl. If it is a girl that you like and she likes you back then it is not Oneitis. It is simply mutual attraction which is a great thing. Don't be worried about being an AFC if you like only 1 girl. If she doesn't like you back but you still keep chasing her then you are being an AFC. But if it is a mutual attraction and you only work on getting the one girl, it is not Oneitis.
 
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Don't get too caught up in oneitis and pua acronyms. It's OK to like a girl, something I didn't fully grasp until recently. Being grounded and having good control of your emotions - often through self-improvement - or having an abundance mentality will keep oneitis away from you.
 
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