"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One-isis totally screwed me

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This has really messed up my life at the moment.

Im 24 and not had a whole lot of girlfriends hooked up now and there but with no consistancy. This will be a fairly long story so be warned :nervous: .

Since about 16 iv been talkin to this girl from my school on MSN we become really good online buddies over a few years. She wanted to meet me back then but iv always srugged it off and said I dont want to meet girls I talk to on the net.

As we got older I stopped goin on MSN etc. We sort of lost touch. Then about a year ago I get a message off her out of the blue on facebook, she was hasstling me to meet her for about a year. I hardly spoke to her or was online but when I was she was always sayin we should meet up. About 4 months ago she gave me her number so i gave her mine out of politness. I never even intended to contact her. But she started to send me loads of text messages and beggin me to see her.

Then finally i met her. I invited her over my house we stayed up till 9am cuddling on my sofa. Met her again on the weekend she stayed the night never had sex just kissed and stuff, I could tell she was a bit nervous and she never wanted to have sex for a while. This girl was totally obsessed with me and I started to feel the same way about her.

For a few weeks we acted like we were sort dating, then suddenly without reason she went cold. One day she was the nice girl i like, then without reason the next day and from then on she turned into this flake who tried to string me along. Still talked on the computer text and phoned each other bet we never met up again. She asked me out a few times but i was unable to make it. And iv tried to get her to meet up but got lamed out each time with no real reasons, about 3 times she never even bothered replyin or answering the phone when we were supposed to meet up.

This girl has really got into my head at first i never gave a crap about her then as soon as i did she started being a bit of a *****. Like siomtimes she will contact me and then not even bother replyin. Like the other day she asked me to come to the beach vai text when i replied then phoned her she just ignored me.

Its really winding me up and gettin to me. Started to hang around on msn and facebook to get to talk to her but now our conversations are crappy she just speaks bear minimam and usually just goes offline in the middle of conversation.

I know I should cut my losses but I really really like this girl underneth the flakyness she is pretty awsome. What the hell should I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he would have completely ignored her, go out, have fun and fvck as many other chicks as he possibly could.
it would be a good idea if SHE discovered that too. Then it would be a great idea to make her beg for your attention and even better sex.. And the best would be to screw her and dump her right after the last drop of semen has left your balls.
 
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If what DonS said is not clear for you then it a ****ing serious problem

read DJ bible..No contact, move on...


Why should we tell you "what to do". You obviously wouldn't have the balls to do it anyways. Hell, she slaps you across the face and all you can muster is a tear.
 
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Man, piece of advice, its the car theory. She starts chasing you like a dog chasing a car, you stop, she loses intrest. End of story.

If you want her, and I mean really want her, you gunna have to take a gamble.

Ignore her, flat out, filter her calls, don't answer her text, **ignore her**!!! Bring her back into your reality, and stop being the scenery in hers. You may want to not do this, but trust in the force luke. It won't guild you wrong.

Eventually, either she'll think "your an *******", which sucks... but at least she's not ripping out your guts. OR, theirs a reasonable chance she'll come back to you, step into your reality, and be your toy. And if this happens, always make fun of that "time" she acted like a little spoiled princess.

Be the *****, not her *****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok guys I respect your honesty and I thank you for that. Going to try to use this to drive me forward. Cut all contact, won't let someone disrespece me like this again.

Ovb from your replies Im acted like a complete *****. Im rubbish with females at the moment but i think I have the drive and willpower to change this. I just need guidence from someone with experiance.

First steps of lossing my girl obsessive *****ness are? Im a blank canvas that needs to be painted
 
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read DJ Bible
 
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