This has really messed up my life at the moment.
Im 24 and not had a whole lot of girlfriends hooked up now and there but with no consistancy. This will be a fairly long story so be warned :nervous: .
Since about 16 iv been talkin to this girl from my school on MSN we become really good online buddies over a few years. She wanted to meet me back then but iv always srugged it off and said I dont want to meet girls I talk to on the net.
As we got older I stopped goin on MSN etc. We sort of lost touch. Then about a year ago I get a message off her out of the blue on facebook, she was hasstling me to meet her for about a year. I hardly spoke to her or was online but when I was she was always sayin we should meet up. About 4 months ago she gave me her number so i gave her mine out of politness. I never even intended to contact her. But she started to send me loads of text messages and beggin me to see her.
Then finally i met her. I invited her over my house we stayed up till 9am cuddling on my sofa. Met her again on the weekend she stayed the night never had sex just kissed and stuff, I could tell she was a bit nervous and she never wanted to have sex for a while. This girl was totally obsessed with me and I started to feel the same way about her.
For a few weeks we acted like we were sort dating, then suddenly without reason she went cold. One day she was the nice girl i like, then without reason the next day and from then on she turned into this flake who tried to string me along. Still talked on the computer text and phoned each other bet we never met up again. She asked me out a few times but i was unable to make it. And iv tried to get her to meet up but got lamed out each time with no real reasons, about 3 times she never even bothered replyin or answering the phone when we were supposed to meet up.
This girl has really got into my head at first i never gave a crap about her then as soon as i did she started being a bit of a *****. Like siomtimes she will contact me and then not even bother replyin. Like the other day she asked me to come to the beach vai text when i replied then phoned her she just ignored me.
Its really winding me up and gettin to me. Started to hang around on msn and facebook to get to talk to her but now our conversations are crappy she just speaks bear minimam and usually just goes offline in the middle of conversation.
I know I should cut my losses but I really really like this girl underneth the flakyness she is pretty awsome. What the hell should I do?
Im 24 and not had a whole lot of girlfriends hooked up now and there but with no consistancy. This will be a fairly long story so be warned :nervous: .
Since about 16 iv been talkin to this girl from my school on MSN we become really good online buddies over a few years. She wanted to meet me back then but iv always srugged it off and said I dont want to meet girls I talk to on the net.
As we got older I stopped goin on MSN etc. We sort of lost touch. Then about a year ago I get a message off her out of the blue on facebook, she was hasstling me to meet her for about a year. I hardly spoke to her or was online but when I was she was always sayin we should meet up. About 4 months ago she gave me her number so i gave her mine out of politness. I never even intended to contact her. But she started to send me loads of text messages and beggin me to see her.
Then finally i met her. I invited her over my house we stayed up till 9am cuddling on my sofa. Met her again on the weekend she stayed the night never had sex just kissed and stuff, I could tell she was a bit nervous and she never wanted to have sex for a while. This girl was totally obsessed with me and I started to feel the same way about her.
For a few weeks we acted like we were sort dating, then suddenly without reason she went cold. One day she was the nice girl i like, then without reason the next day and from then on she turned into this flake who tried to string me along. Still talked on the computer text and phoned each other bet we never met up again. She asked me out a few times but i was unable to make it. And iv tried to get her to meet up but got lamed out each time with no real reasons, about 3 times she never even bothered replyin or answering the phone when we were supposed to meet up.
This girl has really got into my head at first i never gave a crap about her then as soon as i did she started being a bit of a *****. Like siomtimes she will contact me and then not even bother replyin. Like the other day she asked me to come to the beach vai text when i replied then phoned her she just ignored me.
Its really winding me up and gettin to me. Started to hang around on msn and facebook to get to talk to her but now our conversations are crappy she just speaks bear minimam and usually just goes offline in the middle of conversation.
I know I should cut my losses but I really really like this girl underneth the flakyness she is pretty awsome. What the hell should I do?