"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One hell of a f8cking night again omg - field rapport, enlighten me

TheGambino

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There we go again, lots to discuss with you guys here, please enlighten me.

Went out again to a local club and I accidentally jump intoo f8cking 3 ''plates'' that are in the same club. To be honest 4 but the last one is a real lost cause, she lost total interest for some stupid reason.

Anyway..

The first one is the girl I posted so many threads about that I f8cked up with and acted too needy and she got distant. (the sister of my former afc, lots of you know about my story with her, basically started off high sky great and f8cked up by being needy and making out with a girl in front of her when she annoyed me)

I texted her out of the blue and she told me to join her in the club. I went to the club after a bit and she was with 2 guys (1 of them is my buddy). She was very drunk and happy to see me but she didnt give me lot of attention afterwards and was grinding the other dude, they were definetley dating. So she got me there to get back at me for making her jealous. Im totally woken up she doesnt have interest in me and only invited me so I could see her dance and grind the other dude to ''heartbreak''. Years ago I would be devistated, Im so happy I learned about this forum, I am so f8cking greatfull. I didn't feel a flying f8ck. I only have the desire to f8ck her so hard that she will crave for me, but I burried the thought now for good.

So I went on with her game and chatted up plate number 2 who is still intoo me and ironically the girl that I made out with in front of her months ago. At the same f8cking spot even LOL.

Anyhow I forgot about her ass and she saw me chatting up and talking to lots of women who gave me attention and I forgot about her.

Great night, drunk as f8ck.

Now we are getting where I want to get.

I went out of the club and see a old plate, she is farrrr related to me. She is the daughter of my half sisters married sister. So far family.

She came to my house once 2 years ago, we watched a movie nothing happened, she is hot af though, and I was horney.

Took her home, she agreed and drove me home.

We chill on my bed and I try to make out. She doesn't want too though I feel she is wet and we have sex with clothes on. But everytime I tried to grab her pvssy or undress her she declines. She doesnt want to make out but kisses my neck and I kiss hers. She enjoys hugging and kino'ing thats it. Never happened to me before, I always manage to get a girl so horney that they cant resist cex but I couldn't seduce her to have cex or make out. We only kino' and have cex with clothes on for an hour and she was soaking wet, I felt her pants but she resisted cex or getting further. She touched my d8ck a couple of times but wasnt unzipping. Maybe because were related somehow and she told me she got hurt by her ex..

Ok wtf, this is really new for me, could it be no interest?

One hell of a night again, with girls in it that I really had a fling with but all faded away..... story of a winning and falling DJ and care less about them every single day, the more I learn and experience, trust yourself.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin

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There's so much "off" here I don't know where to start.

Let's just do the basics.

1) No group dates until she is your girlfriend. Everything should be one on one.

2) If a women loses interest / dumps you, she's dead to you. The only way you will talk to her is if she hits you up, to which you treat her as a booty call.

3) Don't get drunk in public ever. Don't get drunk with a woman unless she's already your girlfriend and she's into that sort of thing. It's never a good look. You're going to do something stupid and lose mad points.

Read the DJ Bible my friend.
 

marmel75

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Good Lord, this is a mess
 
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