"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One girl at a time or multiple?

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Hey I been single for about a week now. I have some girl_friends that have friends that are interested in me ever since I became single and even when I was taken. The thing is, if I start talking to 1 girl, I only talk to one at a time. This sounds like one-itis, but is it? I'm not in love with one girl. I just want to be with one girl at a time. I used to want to just f- a bunch of girls, but those girls are meaningless to me. I know I can have ONS if I want, but I don't want them. I definitely don't want to tie the knot yet either. Is there such thing as going from one girlfriend to the next one after you find the one you are interested in? It seems like DJing is just trying to hook up w/ as many girls as possible, but I like to go to movies, hanging out, talking, cracking each other up, etc. I'm not saying I couldn't do that by dating multiple girls.
Is there something wrong w/ me about not wanting to hook up as many girls that I can? :confused: Maybe I have one-itis, but I don't think I don't b/c there is not one girl right now that I want to marry or something to that effect. I am interested in this one girl and she is interested in me(made out). Now I know by dating one girl at a time, I won't get to meet all the other honeys that are out there either. Maybe that is what some of us are interested in.

What are your thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The more girls you date, the less you care about each one.

The less you care about each one, the more options you have and the less likely you are to worry about your situation.
 
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who cares!

Does it matter what we think? Really? If you have more fun dating one girl at a time than do that. It doesn't matter what we think. Some of us might think your a pu$$y...so the fvck what.
Do what you want to do, if you can do this with out getting hurt to bad, and thats what you want, do it.

There is nothing wrong with you for wanting to date just one girl, it doesn't mean you are anyless of a man. Many guys try and date other girls just to stroke their egos, becasue deep down they are insecure little biatches.

So do what you want bro, and you will be happy. Good Luck.
 
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