"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One girl at a time or multiple?

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Hey I been single for about a week now. I have some girl_friends that have friends that are interested in me ever since I became single and even when I was taken. The thing is, if I start talking to 1 girl, I only talk to one at a time. This sounds like one-itis, but is it? I'm not in love with one girl. I just want to be with one girl at a time. I used to want to just f- a bunch of girls, but those girls are meaningless to me. I know I can have ONS if I want, but I don't want them. I definitely don't want to tie the knot yet either. Is there such thing as going from one girlfriend to the next one after you find the one you are interested in? It seems like DJing is just trying to hook up w/ as many girls as possible, but I like to go to movies, hanging out, talking, cracking each other up, etc. I'm not saying I couldn't do that by dating multiple girls.
Is there something wrong w/ me about not wanting to hook up as many girls that I can? :confused: Maybe I have one-itis, but I don't think I don't b/c there is not one girl right now that I want to marry or something to that effect. I am interested in this one girl and she is interested in me(made out). Now I know by dating one girl at a time, I won't get to meet all the other honeys that are out there either. Maybe that is what some of us are interested in.

What are your thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The more girls you date, the less you care about each one.

The less you care about each one, the more options you have and the less likely you are to worry about your situation.
 
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who cares!

Does it matter what we think? Really? If you have more fun dating one girl at a time than do that. It doesn't matter what we think. Some of us might think your a pu$$y...so the fvck what.
Do what you want to do, if you can do this with out getting hurt to bad, and thats what you want, do it.

There is nothing wrong with you for wanting to date just one girl, it doesn't mean you are anyless of a man. Many guys try and date other girls just to stroke their egos, becasue deep down they are insecure little biatches.

So do what you want bro, and you will be happy. Good Luck.
 
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