"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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one general thing and one specific

sam21

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Hi, I wanna ask about a situation I'm having and about something else...

1)

the something else is that.. I use to be a good talker, but when I'm talking to a girl I often find myself in a situation in which I'm feeling stupid, taking time to find that word I need to complete the sentence... so, that involves me into a process that takes my confidence away and gradually makes me speak at a lower level... well, I think you know what I'm talking about, but I don't think it's very common... I just FORGET words... I lose my ability to make complicated sentences... and... most of my charm is in the twist I use to do to subjects

2)

well.. now... the situation I'm in... it's very typical.. but I need help

I see this girl in university, and today we met so she gave me some notes... and when we met... we went talking and it was pretty cool, some touches over here and over there... and pretty cool eye contact, then... she started telling me about this ex boy friend of her that she haven't seen on 3 years... and that they were going out... and that he told her that he's in love with her, but she doesn't know what to do, that she had a crush on him.. but now he is fater and she sees him as another person... and bla bla bla, when she was telling me this I payed to her not all my atention, and I said then "I think you should go on, this guy may be the love of your life", then she asked me about this girl I was in love with

well I don't know, now that I put this in words... I see it pretty clear... I think it doesn't deserve a topic, but well... you guys know pretty well and it's always a pleasure to see what you got to say

so, be my guest

=)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ_in_making

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your vocab decreases? Are you nervous....?
 

DJ_in_making

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:rolleyes: I'm a senior Don Juan already? Man time flies.....
 

G-Man UK

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just a shame you need to post blank's because you've got nothing else better to say!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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