5string
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WTF! It costs too much to feed a fat chick.
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backbreaker said:i hate to toot my horn but i'm in unbelievable shape. i can swim laps for about 45 minutes straight without stopping. a few times a month, usually on a Tuesday as i have nothing else to do i will just get on my exercise bike and bike out my iphone and watch a movie on netflix i can go about 30 miles on my exercise bike on medium resistance which is about 1 hour and 45 minutes. I can probalby even go longer than that but i get hungry and bored and when the movie i'm watching stops i usually shut it down b ut not that much longer because when i get off i usually head straight to the shower and straight to bed lol. I go to the batting cage, can stay in there for about 45 minutes before i am completely exhausted. I can jog to the grocery store which is about 4 miles from here without stopping. nefver tried to go further than that, but i think i could squeeze out 1-2 more miles.
i'm 5'8 as well, yesterday when i weighed myself i was 173, don't know my exact BF but i have a visible 6 pack and i can comfortably wear a 31 jeans, and very little if any facial fat, very little fat anywhere but even when i was in high school and 135, i had a "baby face", i don';t have a baby face anymore it's pretty defined. i could put on more muscle but i like clothes too much and i like slim fitting clothes, I've found my "G spot" so to speak with my weight, between 170-175 with my muscle build, you can look at me and defiantly tell i workout, i have a pretty big chest and big arms, huge shoulders and the V taper with my traps, but i'm still pretty slim.
I toyed with the idea of trying to do amateur shows and stuff like that, but 1. it's not that serious to me 2. i can't, or let me rephrase, i won't make myself that disciplined with my diet and 3. i like clothes too much to get much bigger than i am.
so you can see the importance that i personally place on a woman being in shape. her "getting fat" is just the half of it. a woman who "doesn't see the point" of going to the gym, or resents the fact that i spend too much time in the gym, we are going to have issues sooner or later. So i have to screen for that. If I tell my wife I am going to the gym at 9pm at night, becuase i woke up late and didn't get to get to the gym earlier in the day and i don't come home until 11pm, she doesn't get suspicious (which does happen, me going to the gym that late at night). Run that **** by a woman who doesn't see the point in going to the gym and see how it goes lol.
so a woman who tells me she lost 80 pounds, at least i know, she is not against going to the gym. Now the only question is, is she still living the same lifestyle or has she reverted, which i can generally tell within a few days of talking to her.
i don't ever want to get tot he point again where i am huffing trying to climb 2-3 flights of stairs.
As a powerlifting coach, I always love it when Internet guys brag about lifting weights. Dude, a curl is no indicator of strength and you're not meant to use your back while curling. And there are plenty of small guys who are way stronger than you.For instance, I can curl 200lbs. This is mostly due to the fact that my back is strong enough to handle this. Many smaller guys can't do this because their bones simply aren't strong enough (even if they do roids 24hrs a day). One could say that my genes give me an unfair advantage.
And this too. What planet are you on? She may not get fat this year, but she will, within a few years of eating & drinking crap. Her genes are still human. Apologies in advance if you're talking about your sexbot.It is the same thing with females, I want a female who can eat all the fat she wants and never get fat because that is how her genes are.
standing curl. no bench. no preacher.a curl is no indicator of strength and you're not meant to use your back while curling. And there are plenty of small guys who are way stronger than you.
Unfortunately for most males nowadays who aren't rich, attractive or famous, life IS 100% dark. The fact that websites as this one even exist is more than enough proof. The touchy feely "you can still get her if you control the frame" only works when there aren't any meatheads like me around. Although you are correct that I don't have anything at stake and don't care about my reputation on this site, that fact won't stop me from telling other males the truth about what happens when you actually HAVE a hot girl around you. Backbreaker has an advantage in that 97% of males won't fight him or try to intimidate him, but what about the other 3% who will? Are you just going to pretend that women aren't attracted and turned on by mean alphamales who don't have to care about anyone?wait_out said:If you reduce everything in life to who benches more, or who is more intimidating at a nightclub... recognize it's a reframing which is aimed more at yourself Duff, than objectively at the world. You don't have anything at stake at SS so you might as well stop it. Being big is not going to get you up K2 or through the tube at Teahupoo. Not everybody has the same fitness goals or the same values. What if you wanted to be the DJ rather than some meathead (I know you're not dumb... but let's go with it) at the bar? You'd need to spend your 4hrs a day mixing, producing, and searching out tunes rather than lifting.
Life is not perfectly fair, but not 100% dark either... we all make our choices, then live with the consequences. Aligning your desires with your limitations and strengths is intelligent. Not recognizing where you're weaker is stupid. Like the problem with those guys who'd consider fighting you Duff... is not that they're small, but that they're stupid. Did you ever see Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid?
www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1e9Matf19k
I'm not going to argue Jitterbug's side, but I think this conversation is more than a little juvenile
You're just a one liner machine, aren't you, 5string?5string said:WTF! You have to buy two seats on the airplane for a fat chick.
Dat be me! I'm just having fun brother.zekko said:I think Backbreaker was trying to say he was in good shape, as in lean and conditioned, as opposed to being massively muscular. If he was trying to bulk, why would he be doing all that cardio?
You're just a one liner machine, aren't you, 5string?