"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Once I get the girl its all good...

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What up I'm a n00b, in need of advice.

Alright a little back ground. I'm 22 social and not bad looking. After I go out on a date with a girl or what ever its all good. I have that point down. I have even had some of the last couple of girls tell me that I was their best **** ever/ become obssed with me.

This is the hard part. Just going up to them and getting their number. I know all about not giving away your game, don't puppy dog, and all that. But I just can't get it. Most of the girls I get hook up with me, not me hooking up with them. Most of my friends will have multiple girl friends, all good looking. I see them in action but it doesn't seem to work for me. I know alot of the places I got out to are real snobby, but still.:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by GGotgame?
I can't get a girls number for the life of me...
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First thing you need to do is practice approaching a girl and starting a conversation, then worry about the number later. If you're having trouble doing the first part, start off by saying hi to girls at the mall or something. Go into a clothing store and strike up a conversation with one of the hotties about a shirt you like, or pants, etc. Ask her for her opinion (girls love this). The more you practice this, the less your fear of approaching girls will be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most of the time I will say somthing funny to strike up a conversation. Some times its hard to do especially if I try. But most of the time I can. The weird part is that I will talk to a girl, she asks alot about me, then I will say that we should hang out some time, and I always get "Maybe I'll see you around". DOH!!!
 
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Originally posted by GGotgame?
Most of the time I will say somthing funny to strike up a conversation. Some times its hard to do especially if I try. But most of the time I can. The weird part is that I will talk to a girl, she asks alot about me, then I will say that we should hang out some time, and I always get "Maybe I'll see you around". DOH!!!
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Once, you say this say "Hey, you wouldn't have a e-mail address?"...If she says yes tell her to write it down, if no then make a joke out of it. Then ask for her number if she already said yes then ask her to write it below and if no then ask her for it.
 
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