Once I get the girl its all good...

[GGotgame?]

What up I'm a n00b, in need of advice.

Alright a little back ground. I'm 22 social and not bad looking. After I go out on a date with a girl or what ever its all good. I have that point down. I have even had some of the last couple of girls tell me that I was their best **** ever/ become obssed with me.

This is the hard part. Just going up to them and getting their number. I know all about not giving away your game, don't puppy dog, and all that. But I just can't get it. Most of the girls I get hook up with me, not me hooking up with them. Most of my friends will have multiple girl friends, all good looking. I see them in action but it doesn't seem to work for me. I know alot of the places I got out to are real snobby, but still.

 

[DJ_Dork]

don't see a problem here.

 

[GGotgame?]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
don't see a problem here.

I can't get a girls number for the life of me...

 

[GGotgame?]

I am a sales man for a living and I know not to take no for ananswer, rather you over come objections. Does this work for girls?, doesn't seem like a good idea.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by GGotgame?
I can't get a girls number for the life of me...

First thing you need to do is practice approaching a girl and starting a conversation, then worry about the number later. If you're having trouble doing the first part, start off by saying hi to girls at the mall or something. Go into a clothing store and strike up a conversation with one of the hotties about a shirt you like, or pants, etc. Ask her for her opinion (girls love this). The more you practice this, the less your fear of approaching girls will be.

 

[GGotgame?]

Most of the time I will say somthing funny to strike up a conversation. Some times its hard to do especially if I try. But most of the time I can. The weird part is that I will talk to a girl, she asks alot about me, then I will say that we should hang out some time, and I always get "Maybe I'll see you around". DOH!!!

 

[Unforsaken]

Originally posted by GGotgame?
Most of the time I will say somthing funny to strike up a conversation. Some times its hard to do especially if I try. But most of the time I can. The weird part is that I will talk to a girl, she asks alot about me, then I will say that we should hang out some time, and I always get "Maybe I'll see you around". DOH!!!

Once, you say this say "Hey, you wouldn't have a e-mail address?"...If she says yes tell her to write it down, if no then make a joke out of it. Then ask for her number if she already said yes then ask her to write it below and if no then ask her for it.