"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Once again i crash & burn

NeedToImprove

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yep you guys were right about that girl (*****) i went for a date with. she was not into me, but she only knew that after 2 or 3 days later. she told me that there was no spark, she says im cute (despite the fact she said i could have a better ass, which made me lost all respect for her) and she would **** me but she is afraid i would want more from her. she is nothing special, a 6, but she tricked into thinking everything she said was true, and it was not. i wonder why she kissed if she didnt feel anything for me and made it feel like im the one to blame. its sad how woman are...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do her like you would any ordinary farm animal ..lol. The 'no spark' thing means she just wants dyck. No strings attached.
 

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Man, you didn't crash and burn, I don't get it, girl isn't that into it, no big deal, don't beat yourself up over it.

--Mission
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'll quote many of the masters when I say... "NEXT"

Realise it is her loss and not yours. Realise you are the greatest thing to never happen to her. Realise you have the capacity and inner belief to perform amazingly well with women. Realise this by listening to your true self, not your head, which is merley echo'ing other peoples negativity.
 

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You got served

NeedToImprove said:
yep you guys were right about that girl (*****) i went for a date with. she was not into me, but she only knew that after 2 or 3 days later. she told me that there was no spark, she says im cute (despite the fact she said i could have a better ass, which made me lost all respect for her) and she would **** me but she is afraid i would want more from her. she is nothing special, a 6, but she tricked into thinking everything she said was true, and it was not. i wonder why she kissed if she didnt feel anything for me and made it feel like im the one to blame. its sad how woman are...
Ok, pretend the above quote was written by a female. So change the word guys to girls, girl to guy, she to he, etc... and read the whole thing through.

Keeping with the same hypothetical situation where the sexes are shifted, the paragraph above reads like it was written by a girl who is dealing with a pure DJ. I mean the guy delivered contradictions and neg hits to really force the girl into a lower position of power in which she needed to qualify herself. Uncertainty and insecurity results, and it really draws her emotions into it.

Ok, now back to the ironic reality: this girl gamed you with none other than DJ tactics. I say come to this realization, have a laugh about it, and then still try to have sex with her.
 

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She kissed you to make sure that there wasn't a spark. Sh1t happens, then you wipe.
 
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