"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Once again i crash & burn

NeedToImprove

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yep you guys were right about that girl (*****) i went for a date with. she was not into me, but she only knew that after 2 or 3 days later. she told me that there was no spark, she says im cute (despite the fact she said i could have a better ass, which made me lost all respect for her) and she would **** me but she is afraid i would want more from her. she is nothing special, a 6, but she tricked into thinking everything she said was true, and it was not. i wonder why she kissed if she didnt feel anything for me and made it feel like im the one to blame. its sad how woman are...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do her like you would any ordinary farm animal ..lol. The 'no spark' thing means she just wants dyck. No strings attached.
 

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Man, you didn't crash and burn, I don't get it, girl isn't that into it, no big deal, don't beat yourself up over it.

--Mission
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'll quote many of the masters when I say... "NEXT"

Realise it is her loss and not yours. Realise you are the greatest thing to never happen to her. Realise you have the capacity and inner belief to perform amazingly well with women. Realise this by listening to your true self, not your head, which is merley echo'ing other peoples negativity.
 

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You got served

NeedToImprove said:
yep you guys were right about that girl (*****) i went for a date with. she was not into me, but she only knew that after 2 or 3 days later. she told me that there was no spark, she says im cute (despite the fact she said i could have a better ass, which made me lost all respect for her) and she would **** me but she is afraid i would want more from her. she is nothing special, a 6, but she tricked into thinking everything she said was true, and it was not. i wonder why she kissed if she didnt feel anything for me and made it feel like im the one to blame. its sad how woman are...
Ok, pretend the above quote was written by a female. So change the word guys to girls, girl to guy, she to he, etc... and read the whole thing through.

Keeping with the same hypothetical situation where the sexes are shifted, the paragraph above reads like it was written by a girl who is dealing with a pure DJ. I mean the guy delivered contradictions and neg hits to really force the girl into a lower position of power in which she needed to qualify herself. Uncertainty and insecurity results, and it really draws her emotions into it.

Ok, now back to the ironic reality: this girl gamed you with none other than DJ tactics. I say come to this realization, have a laugh about it, and then still try to have sex with her.
 

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She kissed you to make sure that there wasn't a spark. Sh1t happens, then you wipe.
 
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