Hi all, happy new year 
I guess timing isn't that crucial, as long as it doesn't reflects you're desperate and as long as you do it right.. but anyway, I come to think about it quite a lot - too much I guess, so I would like to address this point.
This is what I do:
1. In order to set up the first date - when calling for the first time:
If you feel her interest level is relatively low -- below 50% when she's giving you the # - I'd wait 2 days.
Otherwise, anywhere up to a week.
2. After a good first date - without physical:
I'd call her 2-3 days after, checking how things're going on her side, telling her that you have to busy today or something similar, then ask what's you're up to on .. <tomorrow, etc>?
3. After a good first date - with physical:
Now this might sound bizzare ..... I'd call her the next day, blah blah a bit (no more than few minutes anyway), but do not ask her to do something - but ask what she's up to somewhere 2-3 days after.
At any rate, I'd call her. Why? I guess it might be somewhat insulting to her if I won't. Is it only me to feel that way, BTW?
Does anyone agree or disagree with my distinguishing and handling differently cases 2 and 3?
Will be glad to hear your comments about this one.
atlantis.
I guess timing isn't that crucial, as long as it doesn't reflects you're desperate and as long as you do it right.. but anyway, I come to think about it quite a lot - too much I guess, so I would like to address this point.
This is what I do:
1. In order to set up the first date - when calling for the first time:
If you feel her interest level is relatively low -- below 50% when she's giving you the # - I'd wait 2 days.
Otherwise, anywhere up to a week.
2. After a good first date - without physical:
I'd call her 2-3 days after, checking how things're going on her side, telling her that you have to busy today or something similar, then ask what's you're up to on .. <tomorrow, etc>?
3. After a good first date - with physical:
Now this might sound bizzare ..... I'd call her the next day, blah blah a bit (no more than few minutes anyway), but do not ask her to do something - but ask what she's up to somewhere 2-3 days after.
At any rate, I'd call her. Why? I guess it might be somewhat insulting to her if I won't. Is it only me to feel that way, BTW?
Does anyone agree or disagree with my distinguishing and handling differently cases 2 and 3?
Will be glad to hear your comments about this one.
atlantis.