"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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On Vacation... What should I tell her?

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Slick101

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My GF's X-BF cheated on her when he went to Dominican Rep. (punta cana) 3 years ago...

Im going on vacation next week.... I still didnt tell her where Im going... But I am going to Dominican Rep (punta cana) same place with my family....

I dont know if I should tell her Im going there... I dont want her thinking Im cheating on her....

Should I tell her?
If not... where can I tell her im going instead?

Thanks guysss

BTW She told me wherever you go dont go to Dominican because thats the same place where (X-BF) cheated on mee
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SmoothTalker

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That your family decided on the place and it wasn't up to you. And that she should not hold you accountable for her ex's faults.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear, but you should honestly just tell her where you're really going. You need to let her known that you and her EX are two completely different people. It doesn't matter whether you're going to Dominican or anywhere else, you can cheat on her ANYWHERE. Sure, you may not want to point that out to her but it's the truth. You may be going to the same place where her EX cheated on her but that doesn't mean you're going to make the same mistake that he did. You need to reassure her that nothing will happen. This is a test of trust for both of you. So DONT lie to her. What's the worst that can happen? Do you honestly think your girlfriend is going to break up with you because your family decided to go to Domincan? That sounds a little silly. :)

Best of luck man, I hope things work out for you guys.
 
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Dude this is going to sound harsh, but I mean well.

Your a chump for staying with this psycho!! She's immature, retarded and projects $hit on you ALL THE TIME!! You keep mentioning you meet a lot of girls, well I'm having a hard time believing thats true if you stay with this nut-case.

Break up with this beeyatch and go have fun!! Your too young to worry about someone who can't even take care of herself, let alone give you what you need in a relationship.

Again I'll repeat: You are a AFC to the MAX if you stay with this head-case.
Part of developing game is learning when to cut your losses. Sure it might suck for a bit, but a new girl will eventually replace her and you'll come back here, read my post and think...."Gee I can't believe I was hooked up this dumb girl....PIMP was right."




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