On Vacation... What should I tell her?

[Slick101]

My GF's X-BF cheated on her when he went to Dominican Rep. (punta cana) 3 years ago...

Im going on vacation next week.... I still didnt tell her where Im going... But I am going to Dominican Rep (punta cana) same place with my family....

I dont know if I should tell her Im going there... I dont want her thinking Im cheating on her....

Should I tell her?
If not... where can I tell her im going instead?

Thanks guysss

BTW She told me wherever you go dont go to Dominican because thats the same place where (X-BF) cheated on mee

 

[nubian-knight]

lol just cause your going to the same place that a guy ended up cheating on her at doesnt mean its some mystical island that makes you cheat

 

[Slick101]

So WTF Should I tell her?

 

[SmoothTalker]

That your family decided on the place and it wasn't up to you. And that she should not hold you accountable for her ex's faults.

 

[Slick101]

Any one else?

 

[Scars]

I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear, but you should honestly just tell her where you're really going. You need to let her known that you and her EX are two completely different people. It doesn't matter whether you're going to Dominican or anywhere else, you can cheat on her ANYWHERE. Sure, you may not want to point that out to her but it's the truth. You may be going to the same place where her EX cheated on her but that doesn't mean you're going to make the same mistake that he did. You need to reassure her that nothing will happen. This is a test of trust for both of you. So DONT lie to her. What's the worst that can happen? Do you honestly think your girlfriend is going to break up with you because your family decided to go to Domincan? That sounds a little silly.

Best of luck man, I hope things work out for you guys.

 

[Slick101]

Thanks Im telling herrrr

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Dude this is going to sound harsh, but I mean well.

Your a chump for staying with this psycho!! She's immature, retarded and projects $hit on you ALL THE TIME!! You keep mentioning you meet a lot of girls, well I'm having a hard time believing thats true if you stay with this nut-case.

Break up with this beeyatch and go have fun!! Your too young to worry about someone who can't even take care of herself, let alone give you what you need in a relationship.

Again I'll repeat: You are a AFC to the MAX if you stay with this head-case.
Part of developing game is learning when to cut your losses. Sure it might suck for a bit, but a new girl will eventually replace her and you'll come back here, read my post and think...."Gee I can't believe I was hooked up this dumb girl....PIMP was right."




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