"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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On the subject of the secret... what books to read?

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I dont know if its me or not. I got my hands on a few e-books. After reading 10-20 pages. My eyes get sore and over the long haul it just dosent feel the same. Yea there free but nothing like holding a book in your hand.

I watched the secret and plan on again. Amazing. Ive read similar books.

Im going to barnes and noble to pick up a few;

Rich dad poor dad
48 laws of power
unlock reality
the attracto factor
how to win friends and influence people

anything else ?

i just finished Ageless body, timeless mind - deepak chopra md
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good thinking, didnt know if they carried some of these at the lib
 

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Robert Greene is a great author on the subject. I see that you've listed "48 Laws of Power", a great book. Don't forget "The Art of Seduction" & "33 Strategies of War" by that author as well.

The Art Of War - Sun Tzu -- Classic, must read book on the subject.

Miyamoto Mushashi's "Book of Five Rings" is very interesting as well.

The last two books I've listed here can probably be found online simply by going to google. Free is sometimes a good thing...
 

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I can get every single one of those books listed online, i just dont know how i feel about reading the entire "art of war" online. Free yes but in the long run im going to kill my eyes. I checked my lib and they have a few books listed. I would like to own then but i dont know if id read them again. Or if they would just end up in my own personal lib.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you can get them m8 then flick then over to me aswell Ive searched high and low for some of them and dorks aroudn this place dont stock them much, its a true pain.

Also if its a ebook you can get it printed for really really cheap, I bought 48 laws of power for real cheap online and just had the file printed out at a printing store only cost like 15 bucks and it was in good quality.
 

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A lot of e-books (& regular books) have audio counterparts or similiar material on audio...so seek those out, but u get used to e-books after a while...
 

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I've been reading The Emperor's Handbook by Marcus Aurelius and it's definitely a great insight into his mind and Stoicism. It's along the lines of the 48 Laws Of Power, but more direct and extreme.
 

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Yeah you cant print thos books at a printshop, have them print the pages front and back and its just like a real book.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I get free books???
 

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Fish

it's a shorter book, some great messages about frame of mind and making the most of what's in front of you.
 
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