"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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On the subject of the secret... what books to read?

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I dont know if its me or not. I got my hands on a few e-books. After reading 10-20 pages. My eyes get sore and over the long haul it just dosent feel the same. Yea there free but nothing like holding a book in your hand.

I watched the secret and plan on again. Amazing. Ive read similar books.

Im going to barnes and noble to pick up a few;

Rich dad poor dad
48 laws of power
unlock reality
the attracto factor
how to win friends and influence people

anything else ?

i just finished Ageless body, timeless mind - deepak chopra md
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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good thinking, didnt know if they carried some of these at the lib
 

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Robert Greene is a great author on the subject. I see that you've listed "48 Laws of Power", a great book. Don't forget "The Art of Seduction" & "33 Strategies of War" by that author as well.

The Art Of War - Sun Tzu -- Classic, must read book on the subject.

Miyamoto Mushashi's "Book of Five Rings" is very interesting as well.

The last two books I've listed here can probably be found online simply by going to google. Free is sometimes a good thing...
 

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I can get every single one of those books listed online, i just dont know how i feel about reading the entire "art of war" online. Free yes but in the long run im going to kill my eyes. I checked my lib and they have a few books listed. I would like to own then but i dont know if id read them again. Or if they would just end up in my own personal lib.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you can get them m8 then flick then over to me aswell Ive searched high and low for some of them and dorks aroudn this place dont stock them much, its a true pain.

Also if its a ebook you can get it printed for really really cheap, I bought 48 laws of power for real cheap online and just had the file printed out at a printing store only cost like 15 bucks and it was in good quality.
 

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A lot of e-books (& regular books) have audio counterparts or similiar material on audio...so seek those out, but u get used to e-books after a while...
 

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I've been reading The Emperor's Handbook by Marcus Aurelius and it's definitely a great insight into his mind and Stoicism. It's along the lines of the 48 Laws Of Power, but more direct and extreme.
 

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Yeah you cant print thos books at a printshop, have them print the pages front and back and its just like a real book.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I get free books???
 

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Fish

it's a shorter book, some great messages about frame of mind and making the most of what's in front of you.
 
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