"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On the subject of myspace.

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Since there are so many threads going around on myspace, i'll share an opener I field (um.. myspace) tested a few times. Its not phenomenal, just decent. Just don't overdo it guys, or it kind of loses its value lol.

"I'm sure you get bombarded w/ letters from guys everyday like "you're so hot" and crap I just thought you seemed like a cool person I'd like to get to know."

Some hot girls said "that's sweet" and added me. Many didn't reply (but then again those are the ones that don't reply to anything probably) If anyone decides to field test it tell me how it goes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Careful w/ that one. You almost make it seem as if you're not a confident guy. Talking about one of her interests might start you off on a better footing.
Try: "I'm sure you get bombarded w/ "you're so hot" and and such but I thought it's really cool that you play guitar too. Do you write songs?"

"Guitar" can be replaced w/ whatever her interest is but at least you have something to build on that she wants to talk about.
 
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My bro does the 'hood' approach of:
"Hey ma' I saw your profile and I found you interesting (*key word*) hit me up sometime maybe I can get to know you better"

My nephew does the "simple" approach
Hi, i saw your profile and its interesting (*key word*) that we have a lot in common."
Then he just picks one random thing out of her profile and he's he does it too..

They both have about a 60 percent success ratio now. They tried it without using 'interesting' and it dropped down to about 25-30 percent success. The mysterious factor of saying that something is interesting always peaks interests of the opposite sex
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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