"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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On the subject of myspace.

DJ_in_making

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Since there are so many threads going around on myspace, i'll share an opener I field (um.. myspace) tested a few times. Its not phenomenal, just decent. Just don't overdo it guys, or it kind of loses its value lol.

"I'm sure you get bombarded w/ letters from guys everyday like "you're so hot" and crap I just thought you seemed like a cool person I'd like to get to know."

Some hot girls said "that's sweet" and added me. Many didn't reply (but then again those are the ones that don't reply to anything probably) If anyone decides to field test it tell me how it goes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Careful w/ that one. You almost make it seem as if you're not a confident guy. Talking about one of her interests might start you off on a better footing.
Try: "I'm sure you get bombarded w/ "you're so hot" and and such but I thought it's really cool that you play guitar too. Do you write songs?"

"Guitar" can be replaced w/ whatever her interest is but at least you have something to build on that she wants to talk about.
 

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My bro does the 'hood' approach of:
"Hey ma' I saw your profile and I found you interesting (*key word*) hit me up sometime maybe I can get to know you better"

My nephew does the "simple" approach
Hi, i saw your profile and its interesting (*key word*) that we have a lot in common."
Then he just picks one random thing out of her profile and he's he does it too..

They both have about a 60 percent success ratio now. They tried it without using 'interesting' and it dropped down to about 25-30 percent success. The mysterious factor of saying that something is interesting always peaks interests of the opposite sex
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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