"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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On the subject of myspace.

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Since there are so many threads going around on myspace, i'll share an opener I field (um.. myspace) tested a few times. Its not phenomenal, just decent. Just don't overdo it guys, or it kind of loses its value lol.

"I'm sure you get bombarded w/ letters from guys everyday like "you're so hot" and crap I just thought you seemed like a cool person I'd like to get to know."

Some hot girls said "that's sweet" and added me. Many didn't reply (but then again those are the ones that don't reply to anything probably) If anyone decides to field test it tell me how it goes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Careful w/ that one. You almost make it seem as if you're not a confident guy. Talking about one of her interests might start you off on a better footing.
Try: "I'm sure you get bombarded w/ "you're so hot" and and such but I thought it's really cool that you play guitar too. Do you write songs?"

"Guitar" can be replaced w/ whatever her interest is but at least you have something to build on that she wants to talk about.
 
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My bro does the 'hood' approach of:
"Hey ma' I saw your profile and I found you interesting (*key word*) hit me up sometime maybe I can get to know you better"

My nephew does the "simple" approach
Hi, i saw your profile and its interesting (*key word*) that we have a lot in common."
Then he just picks one random thing out of her profile and he's he does it too..

They both have about a 60 percent success ratio now. They tried it without using 'interesting' and it dropped down to about 25-30 percent success. The mysterious factor of saying that something is interesting always peaks interests of the opposite sex
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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