On "The holy grail of dating".

[Aiken4000]

I´ve read this text. Man, it´s liberating!
It's one of my favorites articles. Let me correct my self, it´s my favorite article.

I love the structure of the Super hunter´s mind.

How is it possible for it to disregard so easily thoughts and emotions? I mean, it all sounds good in theory, but I would love to hear from your experiencie guys about how you actually DO that, it's a little abstract.

I always wanted to have a mind like that !
It's a ****ing computer!
It sounds a little far fetched for me... what do you guys think, is such a level of control of one´s mind and actions possible?

I mean... "feel down about girls, reflecting at that" then, shake off the feeling, go out and have fun... and I mean, how the **** do you erase the feeling... or change it... I mean, yes, positive thinking... but HOW?
I hope you understand what I'm asking here... I'm looking for concrete answers.

Another part I loved is when it describes that "I don't give a ****" about the envioroment, other people ideas, actions, etc, attitude.

How do you develop that "I don't give a ****" attitude.

Thanks guys.

 

[brenbaus]

stop caring about what people think of you, then you have the I dont give a fvck attitude

 

[Aiken4000]

Yeah, I know that's what I need to acomplish.
The point is HOW I do it?
I'm at times very self conciuos, I'm at class for example and before asking a question, I fear ppl will think i'm stupid for asking this or that, or that they'll laugh, etc.

The point is my mind creates that insecurity thoughts, how do yo stop caring?

 

[frivolousz21]

by going against and doing whatever you want.

 

[Holland]

I'd say, a combination between Social Proof and Dedication. Once you have the mentality you might need less or none Social Proof since you're already there.