“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Charmy

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Hey guys!
We know about the importance of frame. That women should enter our frame and you should never enter theirs.
I have a question about it and I've hit a dead end (sort of paradox),
Man shouldn't enter a woman's frame cos it's weak of man, so you want the woman to enter your frame cos that makes you higher value.
Well if that's the case then by the same logic isn't the woman who enters your frame a weak person. After all we want a strong, independent woman too.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Plinco

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Hey guys!
We know about the importance of frame. That women should enter our frame and you should never enter theirs.
I have a question about it and I've hit a dead end (sort of paradox),
Man shouldn't enter a woman's frame cos it's weak of man, so you want the woman to enter your frame cos that makes you higher value.
Well if that's the case then by the same logic isn't the woman who enters your frame a weak person. After all we want a strong, independent woman too.
Women don't get aroused when they have to make decisions themselves. Men and women can grasp the same things conceptually, but perceive things very differently. Having a stronger frame than her is necessary for her to feel safe, and then for her to feel your sexual tension.

With that said, just because you have a strong frame, doesn't mean that she is going to like you.
 

BaronOfHair

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Diesel d-kes aside, women inherently want men to lead... Makes things less vague than babbling about "frame" and the like
 

Rainman4707

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Hey guys!
We know about the importance of frame. That women should enter our frame and you should never enter theirs.
I have a question about it and I've hit a dead end (sort of paradox),
Man shouldn't enter a woman's frame cos it's weak of man, so you want the woman to enter your frame cos that makes you higher value.
Well if that's the case then by the same logic isn't the woman who enters your frame a weak person. After all we want a strong, independent woman too.
I think it is just the natural way of things for a woman to enter a mans frame. Men are the leaders. There needs to be that polarity, whether it's the woman being dominant or the man. Equality dosent work out.
 

Gamisch

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I think it is just the natural way of things for a woman to enter a mans frame. Men are the leaders. There needs to be that polarity, whether it's the woman being dominant or the man. Equality dosent work out.
True, but even tho what you described is called " natural order " ,in practice most men actually fall into a woman's frame rather than the other way around. One good example is how men in relationships have to simp, please and pander in order to keep the her happy/ not angry.

Another example; Most men don't treat themselves untill they have a woman. Men domt go to eat out for example unless it's in the company of a woman. Due to this such a man will always enter her frame ,her reality , her preferences ect.
 
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