on eye contact...

[JeetKuneDating]

i need some insight on eye contact...

what constitutes interest on her part? because everyone looks around the bar and accidentally catches the gaze of another sometimes. how do u discern an accidental eye lock from an eye lock of interest?

for example: last night i was at a bar and there were 2 specifics who i kept making eye contact w/ - more than several times. should we call once an accident, 2 times a possibility and 3 and above the go-ahead to introduce ureself?

i realize its not a good idea to start putting this to a formula, but its a good indicator i think...a good gauge of how an introduction would go.

what of it?

 

[Phantasmal]

Have you ever been in a "Glance War?" Happens to me all of the time. Basically, you keep meeting a person's glance over and over and over, sometimes more than a dozen times. It's pretty awkward and it's tough to escape. This usually happens when you're confined to one area...in a class, for example. I've had glance wars with HBs and non HBs alike. I don't think they mean anything. They could be glancing just because you are...it's hard not to.

 

[redCobra1]

first things first...RELAX...secondly if you havent approached a girl by the second glance she WILL start to think your a wuss or worse yet a stalker. Remember this...if she makes eye contact and you force her to break it and she looks again GO FOR IT. Sometimes you wont be so lucky to get a second glance.

 

[Scoiland]

Originally posted by redCobra1
first things first...RELAX...secondly if you havent approached a girl by the second glance she WILL start to think your a wuss or worse yet a stalker. Remember this...if she makes eye contact and you force her to break it and she looks again GO FOR IT. Sometimes you wont be so lucky to get a second glance.

this much is true

 

[WaRpEd]

Usualy after the first or second time meating their eyes is when I go for it. Oh yea, always remember...never be the first to break eye contact.

Have you taken the time to preform a search? Theirs a little button up their somewhere that says search, click it, type eye contact, and holy crap....information galore.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by WaRpEd


Have you taken the time to preform a search? Theirs a little button up their somewhere that says search, click it, type eye contact, and holy crap....information galore.

are you a mod? why do you care?

 

[JeetKuneDating]

i think eye contact is key...for the record


good tip on the "dont break eye contact first." i'll keep that in mind

 

[bullmoose]

You wouldn't hit a pop fly and just stand there in the batter's box, would you?

Getting eye contact and not introducing yourself is the same thing.

Run it out.

 

[JeetKuneDating]

bad analogy...lotta players hit pop flys and just watch it. maybe a grounder. ure not gonna hit a hot grounder up the middle and just watch it...

but yeah, good way of lookin at it

 

[fender2007]

this is a good question im sure lots of dudes want to know.