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On Drinking Alcohol Before Sex

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Out of curiosity folks, what do you guys think? Does drinking alcohol before sex improve or inhibit one's stamina/sexual performance?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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A little hooch will loosen you up. A lot of hooch will fukk you up. Nobody wants whisky d!ck.

I find that most of the time I have sex there is at least a little alcohol involved. It's more beneficial to get HER a nice buzz going though.

Anything to allow them to externally rationalize their behavior!
 

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inhibits it for me. if im loaded i can get it up, but i feel about 5% of what i normally would.

im one of those guys that when i get drunk i get really relaxed and ultimately jsut wnt to sleep.

whereas for some guys when they get hammered they want to run through the street and vandalize things. :)
 

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I guess it depends on the person but for me, it allows me to last a lot longer which is a good thing.

Plus booze is great for chics, they get soooo much more freaky when drunk.

Overall I say yes, alcohol is a plus before sex.
 

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joekerr31 said:
inhibits it for me. if im loaded i can get it up, but i feel about 5% of what i normally would.

im one of those guys that when i get drunk i get really relaxed and ultimately jsut wnt to sleep.

whereas for some guys when they get hammered they want to run through the street and vandalize things. :)
This is where I'm at, I think the older you get the less you need alcohol to 'loosen up' and relax. Also, I find that anything more than a drink or two numbs the whole experience...an experience that I want to savor and enjoy to the fullest.
 

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I've found that alcohol allows me to last longer which is what I always try to go for the first time around with a chick.

I hate that feeling when you just meet a girl, and you've been doing well with her all night long, then at the end, you blow your load 5 minutes into the whole thing.

I love that phone call the next day.

Her: OMG, my stomach hurts
Me: You been throwing up or something? Hungover?
Her: No.. it hurts because of you!!!
Me: Me?? What the hell did I do?
Her: You know what you did... Well, what WE did. You left bruises all over my ass too
Me: My bad... I get a little carried away when I get excited sometimes... I'll try not to next time around
Her: Oh no... don't think I'm complaining. I enjoyed it all.

True story...
 

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kdnash82 said:
I've found that alcohol allows me to last longer which is what I always try to go for the first time around with a chick.

I hate that feeling when you just meet a girl, and you've been doing well with her all night long, then at the end, you blow your load 5 minutes into the whole thing.

I love that phone call the next day.

Her: OMG, my stomach hurts
Me: You been throwing up or something? Hungover?
Her: No.. it hurts because of you!!!
Me: Me?? What the hell did I do?
Her: You know what you did... Well, what WE did. You left bruises all over my ass too
Me: My bad... I get a little carried away when I get excited sometimes... I'll try not to next time around
Her: Oh no... don't think I'm complaining. I enjoyed it all.

True story...
Ahahahahahahaa!!!
 

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STR8UP said:
A little hooch will loosen you up. A lot of hooch will fukk you up. Nobody wants whisky d!ck.
WE call it "Boozer's droop" or "Brewer's droop" down here.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joekerr31 said:
...whereas for some guys when they get hammered they want to run through the street and vandalize things. :)

uhh...(whistles nonchalantly)...the broken lamposts and stolen stopsigns werent me , i swear. And if i did i dont remember.
 

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Whiskey D!ck.

It provoketh the desire, but taketh away the performance,.. William Shakespeare - Macbeth
 

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Frank2500 said:
Out of curiosity folks, what do you guys think? Does drinking alcohol before sex improve or inhibit one's stamina/sexual performance?
Frank you are not curious - you posted this question because you are thinking about lubricating HER to increase your chances of banging her..
I doubt whether the Military did this much forward planning before Iraq.
 
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